biblerover

I am 51 and have been a Christian since I was eight. I joined this forum quite some time ago and never used it. You have a place for unbelievers to seek help but what about believers who see something called Christian but they have to jump through hoops? Tons of nice people people responded, thank you. It has been a long time since I came back to here and frankly it was because of those "hoops."

My husband is lazy and undisciplined.

Just read a lot of replays that I didm't know were there, no notifications except for the initial sign up notifications. I saw each post by each one of you, that you that you took the time to reply, thank you. Is everyone going to see this or just the woman who I hit "quote" on?

Ok, I figured this part out. I hit "quote" to be able to reply to what you said but I tried hitting the little heart to 'like" comments but it did not work. I don't know how to reply to peoples comments. Except for the "quote" thing that I discovered. I am not stupid i just have never done a forum before.

Thank you, I am not really sure how to reply to each of your post, like you did mine, but thank you.

My husband of thirty years says he loves me but sits around and plays video games for hours when he is not at work. He also had thousands of pictures of sexy women in Photobucket which he deleted most after I protested, supposedly they were for posting in a forum called Survivalist Boards and had to be in Photobucket for them to be able to post them on the forum, he says it was just joking around with the guys, but each month so far this year I have found more pictures of scantly dressed women on his phone. He messages women he does not know like on Facebook a pretty woman holding a gun, he private messaged her "Rover said to tell you hello", he calls himself Rover. He emails with women on a rare occasion and is a little to comfy with them.. He says he does not cheat but he looks at women even when I am with him in town. A lot of the spam on his gmail account is from sites that introduce you to and hook you up with women. He says it's my imagination and the pictures mean nothing and says I'm paranoid and often blames me or gets mad when I don't believe him. What should be my view of him? Am I paranoid or is there a real reason for concern?