Dear Laz,
God hates divorce. Stop asking many people about your situation. Talk to God. kneel before him and earnestly tell him what you want. people's opinions will be different and you may lose focus from the one who made marriage....God. Pray and ask God to bring back your wife. ask the Holy Spirit to work within her, heal her..and you as well...and let love take over...let peace take over...remember it is only Christ who gives peace...peace that no man can give....so pray...don't give up...don't listen to what people have to say....listen from God....and he is faithful...she will return...just pray for her healing from guilt and all...and also ask god to work upon your life.
Be blessed. will pray for you.