You are incorrect in your evaluation of my post. I never said I didn't know loneliness, I said I don't know what it is like to not to have a wife. A person can be in the middle of a million people and still feel loneliness. Having a relationship does not equate to not being lonely.
My sister has a husband and kids but she told me not long ago that she is lonely. She asked me if I was. I told her that I wasn't lonely any more - yet I am single and have no kids.
There are indeed some that are single that aren't lonely, but majority of people that are single and looking for a mate or have given up looking for one are lonely.
I will copy my reply to onelight below:
Yes, I misread your post. Forgive me. Its true that a person can be lonely even in a relationship. But it does help a great deal having a significant other. Having no one is so much worse off (now I'm not talking about a case where the significant other is a terrible bully/abuser)
Sorry for the 'mini hijack of the thread' kronborg.
Thank you ncn (Nigel) for your beautiful testimony