skye20

Yes we are both Christians. we have talked about having kids and yes we both want them soon. To be honest, my husband talks a great deal about college but I do not think he will ever really get around to it because he thinks his reading disability and ADD is very difficult to overcome. My husband has shown interest in college and does have one semester under his belt. I feel that if he continued to pursue welding he would not have to wait to get a four year degree and he really likes welding. He hast oldie though that one day he wants to go back into the ministry

I love my husband so much. He is such a blessing from God! I just feel like I have to wait a really long time to have kids, when honestly I want to start trying within the next few months or so. My husband has not gone to college and graduated. He has a little welding knowledge, but I am afraid that if we start having a family, we won't be able to afford it since my husband does not make much on his job and I would want to stop working to stay home with the kids. I can make decent money, but we both agree it is important to stay home with the kids. I feel trapped. Like I have to wait around for him to finally decide to get through college (it could be many years) before we have kids. What should I do? Step out and just pray that God provides the funds for kids? Or wait many many years until i think we could support a family? What is wise and what is unwise right now?

I don't think it's bad to pursue a college degree. It all depend on what you do with it. If you are using it to climb up the corporate latter and to make tons of money and that is your main focus then yes college is bad. If you are using the degree to serve The Lord and to serve others to provide for your family then college is a good thing