garbi01

thank you everyone for your thoughts, suggestions and prayers. I wasn't proud of what i did, and I totally admitted to her that I was wrong, and confessed to an emotional online affair. It was hurtful but what she needed to hear. She has had a few rough days but has been incredibly gracious to me. I think she knows my road to redemption will be a slow one and long, and she is giving me the grace I need to earn back her trust.

I am guilty of chatting with women online and lying about it and getting caught. I want to make my marriage our God wants it to be and my wife has a lot of questions. some of my chats were sexual in nature and I know she's going to ask about this. I don't want to hurt her any more than necessary but I don't want to lie either. I know our healing is going to be a long process where she is both the victim and yet what have to be a partner as well. I would appreciate some advice on how to deal with the questions she is going to have about what I did online