Kim Tramte Smith

Wow, Thanks Everyone!!! A couple of things stand out to me: yes, I'm under conviction, I ought to go with it; I do feel a call to a higher standard, to live by example and have even thought that this situation will pave the way for others somehow. I personally know that God has called me to a life of radical holiness and even as I type these words I know what I have to do. Praise God. People need hope and you know what? Living together without marriage is a hopeless situation. God is great at making a way where there seems to be no way especially when we are trying to do what pleases Him. I've got to trust Him. Thank you for all your wonderful hearts.

Thank you.

Okay, I think I'm getting it!

Marriage is on the back burner. I am feeling the conviction (that living together is wrong), he is not. As long as we're not having sex, he feels everything is okay. But something inside me can't shake that it's not enough. I agree that the flesh will give in sooner or later. He is saying that he won't move unless he hears it from God...I think it's plain in the Bible...I do love him. Unfortunately, we are arguing over the Word of God.

Thank you!

Thank you, trying to figure out how it works. Thanks for the Welcome!

My boyfriend and I were not walking with God when we met and moved in together. We've since given our lives back to Him and our dispute these days is: Is it okay to live together if we sleep in different rooms?