Like in verse 9 "But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak." There is also an elder in the church who doesn't even bother to hide the wine in his house for the sake of his friend! And Paul also says in verse 13 "Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, i will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble." Even Paul says that he'll just boycott meat for the sake of his brother. Shouldn't we follow his example and do the same for our brothers and sisters in Christ? They completely ignore that last verse again to cover up their own pleasures which is very selfish of them.
Don't get me wrong I love the church I'm attending but this is the first time they completely ignored what the scripture is plainly saying. Just like Cohier said, those verses are very clear yet they are so blind..