jeannieboudra

So, don't worry about the internet? and just keep going out and see where it goes? Time will tell.....

I have been "dating" a great christian man for about 5 months (he is divorced 1 year) we are both 47. We feel like an old married couple. lol I have traveled to his parents 3 times, have met all his kids. We hang out all the time. Work in hes garden together, enjoy being together. It just feels right. we met on a dating site. The other day, I asked if he was still on the dating site and he said yes. (there is a romantic connection between the two of us, so I am not "reading" more into the relationship we are beyond friends) He said he is not seeing anyone, that he is just scared to make a commitment with anyone right now. I guess I do realize that be me asking him to get off the dating site I am asking for a commitment. Should I give him more time and see what happens? Or am I right to say he needs to get off in order for us to see "where we go". At this point I had told him we need to take a break for awhile until he can work though his issues. That it is not fair to me, to fall deeper and deeper and then he one day say, im sorry, I met someone else. He said he is not looking for anyone else and that I need to let him get off in his own time and for me to be patient?

I never really grasped the fact that it took the Israelites 40 years to complete an eleven day journey???? Wow, is that how we are in life? We wander around and around the mountain.....

I have dated a christian man for about 5 months, have met his family, his kids (we are both 47) he has only been divorced 1 year. We have "acted" exclusive, (we met on a dating site). I asked him the other night if he was still on the site and he said yes, he said he just was not ready to have a committed relationship, yet he is not going out with anyone else and really likes me and to be with me. Am I asking too much to want him to get off the dating site and see where we go, or am I asking too much for such a short time relationship? I have prayed so much about what to do. I have said I am not asking for a commitment from him but by asking him to get off dating sites, I guess that is asking for a commitment???? Should I just stop "thinking" so much and see what happens, but I just feel it is not fair to me if someone comes along and strikes his interest. I wish God could give me a peace about what to do?