I have found out in my experiences that the most judgemental people are the ones who say we are not to judge.
We are to judge. We are just not allowed to make the determination that someone's soul is beyond God's redemption.
When we witness, we "judge" that the person needs to hear the Gospel.
When we are to love our enemies, we "judge" that someone is our enemy.
Many people love to "judge", on this site included, but God help you if they think you're "judging" them.
Usually, those who wear the banner of tolerance and unity are the very ones who are the most intolerant and spread the most disunity. Yet, they're always placing the blame on everyone, anyone, else.
Scripture claims that we are to make judgements of all sorts, but out judgements need to go beyond mere appearance into actual character. Whereas, appearance may be a determining factor of character, it may be the results of something else, altogether. That is why outward appearance is to be the least of our judgements.
Most of the time, the people who claim one is judging, are upset, because you are telling then that they are wrong.
Personally, I have NEVER seen anyone on here telling anyone else that they are beyond God's saving grace, though I have seen many fling around the word judgement and judgemental as if the words had no meaning.
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