So God is all knowing right?
In March of 2015 i was saved as well as my husband just days before our divorce was suppose to be final. When i got saved I saw such beauty in our marriage, working as a team, happy, trusting, and so in love with God and each other.
Started marriage counceling with Pastor to get our lives where they needed to be. I know for a fact that it was God who reconsiled our marriage. I prayed to him asking him to show me what I needed to do and it was perfectly clear that he wanted our marriage back together.
Here is my struggle. I dont doubt what i heard or where God wanted me at that time. But why would he reconsile a marriage for it to go back to all the destructiveness that you had left in the first place?
I dont know how to bring my marriage back to where it once was. When i try and talk to him (husband) about what is going on he blames it on me. I have prayed out to God to help me and the direction that he wants me to go in and dont have a clear view of what he wants. I am listening to books, researching, reading and still nothing. And reading scripture
Why would he show you something so clear and now i feel as though he is silent? I know that God doesnt want us to hurt, i know God doesnt want me to be verbally abused, i know God doesnt want my husband looking at gross images on the computer.
So why is he silent? I am starting to lose my faith because this is the worst that our marriage has ever been