Oh I believe all of that is very true. But my husband shrugs it off like it was a bad idea. And I stated that it was biblically adultery. He didn't want to agree on that. So I get the idea that men don't think, that when they watch porn, that they are really doing anything "that" bad. Which says to me, what I find important about marriage (relationship) is not really that important to a man. And through my research, from secular to religious, I have found that a mans number one reason to get married is sex. Which really angered me. Not that sex is wrong. Sex is fine. But that sex should never be the foundation of a marriage. If it is than that marriage is very shallow, because sex, just like beauty, is fading. Leaving my number one question: why do men get married in the first place? I got married because I wanted to love and care for, what at that time, was my best friend . Have children, build a home with my man, dream together about our future, and just plain grow old together. But through my research the number one thing a man would change about their marriage was more sex. Never once was what really matters( what you take with you when you die) ever mentioned. This gave me a whole new perspective on men, and I'm sorely disappointed. I would have rather stayed single then get caught up in this mess if I would have known then what I know now. What an empty existence men must live.