My wife prides her self on her organizational skills she plans the day carefully which can be a good thing. However, what is really going on is not good because it does not release the kingdom – righteousness peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. But it is just a means to control anxiety. She is also quite abusive towards me, she is disparaging, controling, and discussing things with her often feels like being in a verbal battle.
After just over 9 years of marriage I’m very close to seeking seperation and probably a divorce.
My wife has been a Christian for about 39 years, in terms of spiritual groth she has not got past year one and she is not open to progress.
Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated.
