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  1. So I've been dating my girlfriend for a few years and we recently got engaged. She then told me of how she was raped back in high school by an abusive boyfriend. It's not her fault that he attecked her in that way but a part of me just doesn't sit right. She isn't marred or dirty in any way but I feel like I should've been the one to be able to take her virginity after we get married. I myself am a virgin and believed she was too until then. It's not that my feelings toward her have changed in any way we still love each other very much and still plan on getting married. She expressed to me how sorry she was for not being able to give me that part of her when we got married but I know it's not her fault. He was the last guy she dated before she met me and I actually knew him. All of this makes me angry with him and I know I'm supposed to love my enemies and pray for those who persecute me but it just eats me that any man would defile her in that way. I want to know what to do with my feelings, how should I cope with this? Is there anything I can do to help myself forgive him? When we enter that intimate place after marriage that is what will be on my mind and I don't want it to effect our intimacy in any way.
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