It doesn't sit comfortable with me to label them as this or that, as it kind of dehumanises another and sets me up to think less of them and judge them. I would prefer to label each, "one in need of Jesus", as am I. I'm just as needy as the next in this respect. That puts us on equal footing and reminds me that but for the grace of God there go I. Then my heart remains soft.
I think to deal with such behaviours we need to be firmly rooted in Him and the knowledge and experience of how much He loves us. And yes as you said to know when to say enough, even if its a temporary enough while we spend time in His presence to recoop. Some behaviours can be so wearing for sure. And yes I have some of them too...
Thank you for this post it made me think and evaluate some things.