My husband had a difficult situation to decide, his sister called and not in a nice way but manipulative asking for money and she has done this in the past with demand, for her and their parents phone, tv, and internet bill. Now my question is, in honoring his parents is he obligated or to be in obedience to the commandments of honoring mother and father, that he has to pay it? I don't see this is honoring his parents, his father was a drunk and used up their savings, so with his wrong doing of the past they are suffering, also it only says honor father and mother, does he have to be also helping his sister just because she chose to quite her job, she is capable of working she uses her money for smoking and drinking, where she needs to save her money for her own bills. My husband and I don't even make much money and have our own debt to deal with, which I want to get rid of. This is causing a division between my husband and I, and we have a very good marriage, just in these areas I am not happy with his decisions, so he believes that when they need money to honor his parents he needs to provide is this so, even though we are suffering ourselves, where do you draw the line?
Thx for your advices, God Bless
