Interesting perspective. I've had men tell me they thought it was different, married men. Although I'm not sure. I think it is the same in God's eyes either way, maybe men would just be more willing to forgive a wife that was with a woman than a woman would be if her husband was with another man. I don't think our human willingness to forgive has anything to do with what God says is right or wrong though. But thank you for your thoughts.
And in reference to major and minor sins... I guess I think the difference is the consequences for us. From what I understand, in God's eyes, sin is sin. He cannot look on sin regardless of what it is. The difference is that the consequence of getting drunk, or telling a lie, or being a gossip may not have the lasting effects to our human body and consciousness as a sexual sin has. I get that the sexual union between a husband and wife is supposed to represent the way we become one with Christ. To form a union like that with someone that's not our spouse messes up our mind and spirit for a long time. So even though God forgives us of sin when we ask it, some things are more difficult for us to get past or let go of than others. I get it.
