@patrick jane No.
One of the best things I ever did was leave the church building. My friendships with other believers which are stupid close has been a hundred times more beneficial.
Slept in the corner of a church in my truck one winter. Not one person from the church said "lets give you a break" out of the cold. The pastor knew I was there...
Thats most american churches, when times are great they will like ya. When the storm comes and life is royally suckin..the american church will tell you its your fault, you need to pray more, go to church more then pop smoke.
As believers we need to be the hell or high water we got your back types and then what happens? We attract the same.
@Marion-don't go back to that church.
Ask God for solid friends who are believers, and before that happens-be a person who keeps your word.. ect. To have good friends you have to first be a good friend.