I decided I was interested in looking to a foreign country for a wife. I met my current wife online and after lengthy in depth conversations I went to meet her. I stayed with her for three months in her country, Ukraine. During this time I went to great efforts to make it clear how very important it was to me to be compatible with my future wife, because if we are not compatible there will be huge problems later. In great detail and many repeated conversations I told her ALL about my life, my hobbies, my life style, place of living and many details of everything. I did this to ensure she had a CLEAR understanding of my life and that I was looking for a woman that also likes a similar lifestyle as mine. She repeatedly stated all of this was great and she liked it. Later found out this was false and she likes NOTHING about where I live or how I live. I also asked about her relationship with her mother (only living parent), because it was important to me to be with someone who has a good family relationship. She said oh sure!!!! Yes, she has a very good and normal relationship with her mother. Later I found out she hates her mother and claims she was abused and neglected. I asked if she was Christian and if she believes in God and again, Oh Sure!!!! She grew up with her mother going to the Orthodox church,but she currently is not going. Another lie, she is NOT a Christian at all. All of the lies came out later.
To make a long story short, She is now here and we've been married 3 1/2 years. It has painfully become clear she completely misrepresented herself on every issue and lied for the purposes of getting married. Everything she told me about herself were false. In my opinion this is a fraudulent marriage. Soon her green card will come, but I am seriously considering notifying immigration and stating she defrauded me into marriage. We all know what the bible says about marriage and divorce, but if the divorce is obtained under fraudulent deceptive circumstances doesn't that mean the marriage is not valid in Gods view? If I notify immigration, she will be deported, but the bible says "do not put her out, but if she wishes to depart,let her depart". What to do?
