Ok so this is just a quick update on the situation now. I have talked to both of my parents separately and I now know a little more about the situation. My mom has never been very open with her thoughts and emotions but I got my dad to open up a little bit. From his point of view my mom doesn’t act like she loves him anymore and he said that for years she has not shown any affection for him. He did have a very valid point when he asked me when was the last time I saw my mom go sit by him or go up to him and hug him. I couldn’t remember. He says that he just keeps on trying to show his affection and she just sits there on her “stupid phone” (he was getting a little upset at this point in the conversation). Apparently a lot of the fighting has been because my mom was ignoring my dad and then he would get mad about it. I asked him if he could try to be more patient with her and he said that he has tried, but he is tired of being basically ignored besides to fight. So based on this information from my dad’s point of view (and I am trying to be as non biased as possible) can anyone give me some advice on how I should try to proceed.