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  1. If I understod well, I posted two different topics. One just intended for women as we are discussing here and another just intended for men. I len there is another referring ti Ephesians 5:25-33.
  2. I am still unmarried my sister...LOL! This topic is also for us who want and would like to get married. The reason we must follow God's instructions when the Bible recommands to marry amongst us. I mean a Christian must mary a Christian. Romans 12:1-2 Dedicate Your Lives to Gof 1 Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God’s compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you. 2 Don’t become like the people of this world. Instead, change the way you think. Then you will always be able to determine what God really wants—what is good, pleasing, and perfect. When we watch films, we seldom learn good things if not what is against God's instructions. And even at school we are taught about claiming for our rights an so on. I sincerely believe that the HJoly Spirit won't leave ys alone as long as we please Him. The instructions we find innside the Bible are for Christians and not for pagans. How can we ask a Pagan to follow God's commandments they did not give their life to Jesus Christ. Tis is out dury or responsibility to be His witnesses eveerywhere in order to win more souls for Him. We often make lots of mistake like GOD WIL CHANGE HIM and when it oes not happen we accuse God while the Bible tells us how to choose our partner. of course, the Bible tells us submit our projects to God and He will decide so we know what we should and this topicis also forus.Once again I repeat, I am still unmarried. I am turning 43 on 25 March and I have never been in any love relationshipand maybe this is the reason why. I do not know. Maybe? Please donot lose your heart because our God has a the better for all of us in store. Proverbs 16:1-3 (GOD'S TRANSLATION) Wisdom’s Blessings Come from the Lord 1 The plans of the heart belong to humans, but an answer on the tongue comes from the LORD. 2 A person thinks all his ways are pure, but the Lord weighs motives. 3 Entrust your efforts to the Lord, and your plans will succeed. Otherwise here is what the NIVUK (Nex Intyernational Version - UK) says: 1 To humans belong the plans of the heart, but from the Lord comes the proper answer of the tongue. 2 All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord. 3 Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. And as Christian ladles, uou must always dress decently and meditate your Bible in order to discover the plans that God has for you in store. We should not be afraid bcause our Fater is always in control.
  3. I totally agree with you my beloved. However it has become very hard to meet such peole or such a Sister who would accept that and life has become harder than previously so both of them shold agree about. And we men have left women alone and children are now educated by moms only and even the laws in most countries do not help. We Christians must not compromise our faith and we need to pray a lot and Young Christian need more education to save the future. I think I did not write anything wrong or confused.
  4. I am very sorry for keeping silent. Indeed, I was unable to retrieve my topics until now. I am sorry agaon. Well, I totallu agree with you. And the reason why I mentioned Christian because this is for the one who is God's child. The Bible says so in Romans 8:14 'GOD’S WORD Translation): "Certainly, all who are guided by God’s Spirit are God’s children." I mean whoever is led by the Holy Spirit, of course. A Christian husband annot push his wife to sin not a Christian wife push her husband to sin. I think I understood what you meantand that my response did not offend anyone.
  5. EPHESIANS 5:25-33 - GOD’S WORD Translation 25 Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. 26 He did this to make the church holy by cleansing it, washing it using water along with spoken words. 27 Then he could present it to himself as a glorious church, without any kind of stain or wrinkle—holy and without faults. 28 So husbands must love their wives as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself. 29 No one ever hated his own body. Instead, he feeds and takes care of it, as Christ takes care of the church. 30 We are parts of his body. 31 That’s why a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will be one. 32 This is a great mystery. (I’m talking about Christ’s relationship to the church.) 33 But every husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and wives should respect their husbands. In the lght of this Bible verses, it is very cler that a Christian single man who is ready for marriage knows his duties. Otherwise he must not look for a wife. Therefore I wonder why a Christian single lady asks for a Christian single man if he can take care of her and why taking care of her is a criterion to marriage. Indeed, a Christian single man means a man who is led by the Hly Spirit. He mdeitates his Bible every day and he is alao also alert about his duties as a husband and then no one needs to teach him about the roles or duties. If not how can he be the head of his family and then the family? When a Christian single woman asks some proof he can take care of her, her brother (the Christian single man) vpould think she just wants his money. MARRIAGE means a lot and so Man and Woman must get to know each other and since they are Christian, take care of one's spouse or not must not be something to be scared of because the Holy Spirit is leading that relationship. And Man must alsways suffer for her and his family. Unfortunately, we dont want toobey the bible because we chose to adapt it to the what the world requiires today. We were cretaed to glorify God. 1 CORINTHIANS 11:8-9 (GOD’S WORD Translation) 8 Clearly, man wasn’t made from woman but woman from man. 9 Man wasn’t created for woman but woman for man. Wives are not slaves and they won't be. But A wife needs to help her hisband in his work because she was created for him. So a Xhriostian single man knows always what to do for his wife and then she will always be submlissive. GENESIS 2:18 - GOD’S WORD Translation 18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is right for him.” As we can read above, God created Eve (woman) for Adam (man). A Husband might not hurt his wife because she a part of him. We suffer in marriage because we diod not follow God's principles. For example, if your husband is a pastorthen you must assist him to make easy his ministery. You cannot be someone else and block his ministery.
  6. EPHESIANS 5:22-24 (GOD’S WORD Translation) 22 Wives, place yourselves under your husbands’ authority as you have placed yourselves under the Lord’s authority. 23 The husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. It is his body, and he is its Savior. 24 As the church is under Christ’s authority, so wives are under their husbands’ authority in everything. We are Christians and then we need to submit to the Word of God . Otherwise we do not belong to Jesus Christ. As some preachers say, God knows that it is difficult for a woman to be submitted and so He gave such a commandment. The Bible talks to Christians so we all know what we must do in order to get married. No Christian man has to require submission from another Christian woman before they get married because they are both God's chrildren and tey knwo what He wants for them. 1 CORINTHIANS 11:8-9 (GOD’S WORD Translation) 8 Clearly, man wasn’t made from woman but woman from man. 9 Man wasn’t created for woman but woman for man. No Christian wife can rebel to her husband because God rebellion means disobeys God.
  7. The Bible says this one below: "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) Referring to the Bible verse, I think that a man should first be able to take care of himself and have a bob or a kind of occupation and then he can get committed to a relationship leading into marriage. When we men accuse women to be selfish, we are wrong in some way because a woman needs security and protection from her partner. However, we must also be wise because not al women are serious and it is not easy to open one's hert to another person without any trust so we need to be honest in a relationship. Lots of women say they are looking for a serious relationship or marriage but they do not understand the reason why we need to get married and why they need a partner. The Bible verse says that a man leaves his father and mother. How can he leave them if he is not able to rent a house or live alone. How can he leave his father and mother if he has no activity? How is he going to date a lady when he is under his parents' authority? And how about the children? They need comfort, security, education and food so that they grow up very well. And what it happens to date online, a ,an and a woman should be honest and talk seriously. We are Christians and so we need to think about all, including the distance. And there is a big trap here because a woman who is about to date a man could think that her partner is rich because he lives abroad. it is not always true. In that case, the woman could ask money from her partner and says that they cannot date because he is unable. I understand why most ladioes prefer to date in her coountry instead of accepting online dating. When you are able to travel abroad and meet her in person, she could think that you are moneyed and so she has won the jackpot while it is always the same. Thanks for stopping by reading this topic or post. Fortunately, we have our Lord who intercedes for us every day and He wil never let us be because He loves us and al He wants is our happiness (Jeremiah 29:11). Everything is possible to our Lordf God (Luke 1:37). Jesus Christ of Nazareth loves you..
  8. Hello everyone, During several years, I have been glad as a single and I wasn't interested in getting married but now I NEED A WIFE, I NEED MY WIFE. I'm wondering what I must do. Of course I keep ln praying but I'm wondering a lot what I must do. When Adam Saw Eve, he recognized her. I need the guidance of the Holy Spirit. I have African Roots and I still wonder where she Is from. She must be Born Again, of course. I've just started earning a SALARY and as the Bible says, where Is the Joy to work hard and earn loney when I am alone? Nowadays, most Sisters in Christ look at the pocket before accepting to Marty you, to become your WIFE. They are Ready to divorce and remarry. In Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:3-19, the Lord teaches us about marriage, divorce and remarriage. "You have been taught that a man who divorces his wife must write out divorce papers for her.[a] 32 But I tell you not to divorce your wife unless she has committed some terrible sexual sin. If you divorce her, you will cause her to be unfaithful, just as any man who marries her is guilty of taking another man's wife." - Matthew 5:31-32 How about her age? God created Adam first then He created Eve. She must be younger than me but I'm unable to say how Old she must be. How about the children? "People who don't take care of their relatives, and especially their own families, have given up their faith. They are worse than someone who doesn't have faith in the Lord." - 1 Timothy 5:8 Indeed, I have never been in a couple and I have no kids. I was born in 1981 so I'm turning 42 by the end of March. May the Peace of GOD be with toi all!
  9. Shalom! I am wondering about what we call Easter. In the past it was referring to an Anglo Saxon or a Viking god named so. Nowadays it has become the modern Passover. Then aren`t we celebrate easter? what happened so that we changed Passover into Eater? Over years and centuries there were many mistakes that falsified or compromised our faith. I am still wondering if we should celebrate Easter or the Passsover. God bless everyone through Yeshua Hamashiach (Jesus the Messiah) . Amen!
  10. Hello Angels, I recently found some videos on Youtube concerning English lessons and canticles suchas more love, more power. Therefore I will return there when having time. I have not internet at home then I did not hesitate to go to the airport when i have been told that the wireless connection is free at the airport. I could return there next time the lord God allows me to. I thank you again. And, I expect from fining better. UInfortunately I couldn't download films for free. I thank you again and God bless you in Chriust Jesus. Amen!
  11. God bless you in Jesus Christ the Lord and our saviour. Amen!
  12. Hello GandalTheWise and Justin and i thank you for your contribution. In our country pupils rarely like studying English and they can say they will never go to England. But many of them like singing English songs. And as a teacher of English I must havve them to be in love with English. The government do not open a way of teaching the Gospel in schools but there are some denominational schools then we find moslem or christian schools here in the Congo. Religion is not taught in state (public) schools. Moreover there are lots of Christian teachers throughout the Congo. I wonder whether I can start every class by saying a common prayer together with my students. For example I plan to use the following prayer before starting class every time we meet in class: Almighty God We give You our school. We give you all the teachers and staff who work here, We give You all the children who study here. We pray our school would be place of great discovery, adventure and creativity. May it be a place where we love to learn and where we learn to love, A place where everyone is respected and all are deeply valued. We ask all this through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. I think that every pupil will be interested in saying a prayer at every meeting but we must avoid it becomes like a routine then we can alternate with the Lord's prayer in two versions. I don't know if it can work. We must comply with the national syllabus but, not in the whole since we have some freedom to teach some items when we judge them necessary to the pupils. We teachers manage ourselves with running oral session but the teachi,ng of English is more written than oral or read. Of course grammar is very important to speakEnglish very well but we need to speak it too. And in case we comply with the national syllabus we teach songs three times a year I mean one per term. I conceived a booklet with bilingual introductory dialogues and i thonk it helps. Thanks a lot for your comfort and chiefly your prayers. Markus 10:13-16
  13. I teach English in a state (public) school and, which is a junior secondary one I mean a middle school. Well, in state schools we do not teach the Gospel but most of my pupils are Christian or attend a church then I would like all of them to know Yahweh the Lord God and obey Him every day and every where. Then I think of teaching them the Lord's Prayer for example which they canb repeat every day before starting a class ort another prayer I found online and in which we are going to pray with submitting the whole of our school, including all the teachers and the head teacher and the pupils and all clssrooms so that everything be under the Holy Spirit's control. Most like singing and I also want to teach them English canticles without neglecting the fact they dislike English for most I wonder how I could manage with. I am very motivated to do it when thinking of Colossians 3:23 and 1 Corinthians 10:31. Thanks for your replies and God bless you in Jesus Christ. Amen!
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