Blaze

well I believe strongly that birth control should not be used, if God intends to give you children then you will have children if God puts children in your life then it is for a reason and in my oppinion birth control is ver much the same a abortion. this may seem blunt but I don't mean it against anyone I do feel that if you are certain God wants you to use birth control then by no means should you disobey God, but my oppinion is stated that I think birth control is wrong because it prevents something natural and somewhat taints something holy set aside for a man and his wife. but it is one of those things that you should leave up to the person if they are strong christians and if God does not permit then you can be garaunteed that it will be made known. Blaze

I'll have to share this with my mom(she's a lactation consultant, works in the delivery room, and has had three kids) She'll get a kick out of this.

thanks for the encouragement about my encoaragement LoL! oh that wasn't really that funny was it? :suspect: . Well anyways, I thank you for you gratitude now I have some messages to check! Love in Christ, Blaze

the world is full of discouraging things,but we have to just keep going. Not to long ago I went on a snowboarding trip to denver and at first I just couldn't get up(man is snowboarding hard!) but I kept going. I went up and down the easy slope for an entire hour untill I finally fell so hard I felt like quiting I hit my back and my head it was hard to breathe and I had a major head ache so I just walked over to a bench and laid my head on a table and rested. I figured I'd stay there for the rest of the day. My uncle came over and asked if I wanted to go up to the harder slope I didn't want to, but I decided I had to keep going. After I got off the lift I sat at a table and got a breath of air. It was still hard to breathe and I realized I really should've stayed at the bottom. I went down and not to long after I started to go down I got the hang of turning and stopping. I realized how fast I could go without losing control so I learned how to slow down. All the way down I kept falling but I kept getting up I reapeted that about every ten yards. when I reached the bottom I realized it was worth it. One: I could snowboard and Two: I saw the huge hill I tackled and could say that I rode that. I webt back up it and this time I knew how to snowboard so this time I had fun and realized all that hard work payed off. you see things are hard for a reason. If we didn't have to work for it we wouldn't apreciate it. So keep on going and work as hard as you can. I felt lead to share this with everyone so I did You have my prayers, Blaze

the world is full of discouraging things,but we have to just keep going. Not to long ago I went on a snowboarding trip to denver and at first I just couldn't get up(man is snowboarding hard!) but I kept going. I went up and down the easy slope for an entire hour untill I finally fell so hard I felt like quiting I hit my back and my head it was hard to breathe and I had a major head ache so I just walked over to a bench and laid my head on a table and rested. I figured I'd stay there for the rest of the day. My uncle came over and asked if I wanted to go up to the harder slope I didn't want to, but I decided I had to keep going. After I got off the lift I sat at a table and got a breath of air. It was still hard to breathe and I realized I really should've stayed at the bottom. I went down and not to long after I started to go down I got the hang of turning and stopping. I realized how fast I could go without losing control so I learned how to slow down. All the way down I kept falling but I kept getting up I reapeted that about every ten yards. when I reached the bottom I realized it was worth it. One: I could snowboard and Two: I saw the huge hill I tackled and could say that I rode that. I webt back up it and this time I knew how to snowboard so this time I had fun and realized all that hard work payed off. you see things are hard for a reason. If we didn't have to work for it we wouldn't apreciate it. So keep on going and work as hard as you can. You have my prayers, Blaze

I only have a few things to say. One: he seems like he's been let down a lot. so you must assure him that God will never let him down and all that happens is for the better. two: you have to tell him that not all christians are like that. and those that are are either just claiming to be christians or christians that have a lot of issues. I wish I had more to say. You have my prayers, BLAZE

He has a point. Maybe you should invite her over to dinner or something. Something to break the ice and let her know you are there fo her. Pray. You have my prayers, BLAZE

you may be right cats. they never did post again. and who knows they may just be trying to find some way of making quick cash. They may not really need it, but we must still pray for them. Blaze

some of the replies are a little negative, no offence to those who wrote them,but that's just not my nature. Cats I know divorce is wrong but you have to remember they may see something in it that could have a benefit ,but nevertheless divorce is a turn they should not make, just please try to be a little bit more sensitive towards them it did sound a little harsh but maybe it's just the way I took it. But either way try to stay away from Divorce it will solve no problems, Desperate. Desperate: you have my prayers. BLAZE

I understand you completely nicks girl! so many people toss my ideas aside just because I'm a minor.Tisk tisk. well I can't help you to much on this subject at this point in time Yami But I will try my hardest to help. come on blaze think!

Oh I see what's going on, well you still would first need to be inside the bonds of marriage but other than that cousins I would guess have to be okay.

If you have any questions feel free to pm me.

You have my prayers. BLAZE

I have a strong feeling that you should leave but that's just me, now I think you should pray real hard and make sure this is what God wants you to do because it would be pretty tragic if you did leave and it was not God's calling to do so. But I am lead to tell you that you should leave. God bless, I will pray for your guidance. BLAZE

oh so true oh so true. thanks for the scriptures they will be used in my life I can promise you that. BLAZE