We all have our opinions, however its' NOT about the way, or the will of men, but of God. This is why we have the scriptures we are to reason with together, not our opinions. (Acts 17:2) Its all about the GIFT of the work of God (the Father) AFTER Jesus death and ressurecction to create Christ in us so that we would not boast (that He already accepts us the way we are) because we are given the faith first, so that we can receive grace (in all of its teaching) to have the obedience to perform His will for His good pleasure (Eph 2:10-8, Rom 1:5, Phil 2:13). I think you really need to spend some real quiet time going over this post and asking God for some understanding, so that you would not have ignorance in the fact that God accepts us, not the other way around. Next time you respond it should be within the scriptures, not your opinion, because love edifies in the truth, not opinions (Rom 15:2) We are only edified and ministered to by the word of truth which is all about grace (Eph 4:29)