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I have to say that I agree with the others. It is very normal and you are handling it better then most. Hang in there.

I want to thank everyone for their input and their prayers. You have given me a lot to think about. I think I knew the answer before but I think it has been confirmed. I have forgiven him for what he has done, and I have forgiven him for not telling me, but like you said, will I always have this doubt. I have grandchildren and I don't think I would ever feel comfortable with him around them. I cringe just thinking about how they have already been around him. He has not been alone with them. I thank the Lord for that. When we started going out I told him all of my secrets, some of them pretty bad, but i wanted to be honest with him. He didn't return this coutesy. I think I would always be waiting for him to mess up. How can I take that chance. I don't think I can. I don't want to live my life in fear. I have prayed and I cannott feel peace from God about this relationship. It really hurts but I have to let him go. I know God makes us new people when we accept him, but like it was pointed out, why didn't he tell me. I do believe that he loves the Lord and is a new man, but I think I would always be wondering. I ask the Lord to forgive me for that. I ask for your continued prayers, both for myself and for James. Thank You

Afal, please don't give up. i have tried on two occasions to take my life, and there is NOTHING WORTH IT!!!!! Suicide is not the answer. I will pray for strength and guidance for you. God is there for you!!!!! And so are we at Worthy. I am sure there are a lot of prayers going up for you. Hang in there please

My brother's friend recognized him when he met him. He told my brother and then my brother told me. I didn't believe it at first so I went to the police station and it was on file

3 1/2 years ago I met a man that I thought had been sent to me by God. We attended the same church. We finally started going out and I fell in Love with him. Six months ago he asked me to marry him. I thought how great is this. We laughed together, prayed together and just enjoyed being around each other. About 3 weeks ago I found out a horrible secret he has been hiding from me. I found out that he was conconvicted on child molestation charges. It happened about six years ago. I was devestated. I broke up with him and I have been miserable, because I still love him. He tells me that he has gone thru a sex offenders class and graduated, and that he has given his life to the Lord four years ago. He says that God has forgiven him and that I should. That he loves me and he is not that person anymore. I have been prayin about this and my mind tells me to let it go but my heart says to give him a chance. Am I better then God that I can't forgive? Dosen't the Bible say that if we don't forgive, we won't be forgiven. I am so confused I don't know what to do. I need help!!!!!

Oak, I am so sorry that you are in such pain. I will definately pray for you,