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Is that boy really loves your friend when they got married? Or maybe he had motivation to your friend that he didn't got from her. Your friend really needs a strong prayers. And I have pray for them already, God is in control and let's trust in his ways.

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hi kim, I agree! As for the current situation, things are on the improve, but it will take time to see if it's love or just admission of guilt that he's showing her. She seems hopeful though. Will keep praying.

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I know I'm a little bit late on this... and I'm probably not going to be much help.. I just wanted to throw in something that crossed my mind when I read your post *Zion*... When you said "she says: how can you love someone who will never ever love you back?" .. The first thing that rushed into my thoughts was .. Jesus... He loves many many people who will never ever love Him back... How does He do it?

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This will be a matter of prayer.

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I know I'm a little bit late on this... and I'm probably not going to be much help.. I just wanted to throw in something that crossed my mind when I read your post *Zion*... When you said "she says: how can you love someone who will never ever love you back?" .. The first thing that rushed into my thoughts was .. Jesus... He loves many many people who will never ever love Him back... How does He do it?

Yep, she needs a lot of strength and a lot of grace from God. It's easier said than done. everything still seems to be improving, but I don't think they're out of the woods yet with this. Still praying.

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Bad news. Things were improving, and my friend really was opening herself up, but her husband let her down big time. He says that he's given her all that he has to her and has nothing else for her: no passion, desire or marital love. devastation like you wouldn't believe.

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May God have mercy on this family.

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Why did she marry him? Surely they got to know each other first?

Many people hide their "real" selves until after the marriage.

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lol, c'mon now Zion, it can't all be the hubbies fault. It takes two to tango in a relationship. Does she bicker with him, become excessively needy or overbearing. This is a reason why many men become "detached." The bible says a nagging wife is like a leaky faucet. It's better to dwell in the corner of a rooftop, than with a quarrelsome and vexatious wife. I just believe it's always best to hear both sides of the story to make it work. They'll be in my prayers.

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lol, c'mon now Zion, it can't all be the hubbies fault. It takes two to tango in a relationship. Does she bicker with him, become excessively needy or overbearing. This is a reason why many men become "detached." The bible says a nagging wife is like a leaky faucet. It's better to dwell in the corner of a rooftop, than with a quarrelsome and vexatious wife. I just believe it's always best to hear both sides of the story to make it work. They'll be in my prayers.

The bible also says to Love your wife like Jesus loves you. Attaching blame to one or the other partner from a distance is probably not the best thing I would advise.

I would probably just advise prayer for the marriage.

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