People are not Born Gay - Royal College of Psychatrists

[OakWood]

My sister in law's husband turned out to be gay. She had questions while dating him because he had not made a pass at her. After several years of marriage he was exposed at work where he was found being unfaithful to both his wife and his boyfriend who was a business partner. She dumped him immediately and moved out of the area when it all came out. He was a nice guy who treated her well, as well as her college age daughter, and even appologized to his mother in law afterwards. He also had an ex wife and children. He was not overtly feminine. That is an act quite often.

I have worked with 6 guys who were gay. One also had an ex wife and kids. But he spent the summer prospecting with another guy who was gay who let it all slip. The first went to a GARBC baptist church and the other goes to a gay church. They were likable but a 3rd who kept a room in another city was a gay prostitute. I was able to witness to him once. He was amazed that our sons are close to me and that we respect each other so much.

A music leader at our evangelical church also had a family. It was well known at work that he was gay. I didn't believe it and laughed about it with his wife, and shortly later they were divorsed; he left town and move to a gay area. He did act a little effeminate, but even hubby did not suspect that one.

Having a wife and family is a convenient cover for some who don't want to "come out of the closet".

But all sex outside of a heterosexual marriage is sin, which is something that psychiatrists don't deal with. Our pastor has revealed that about a dozen gay people in our church have been converted, repented and delivered from deviency after being held accountable with much pastoral counseling. Several have hepititus C and one is dieing from it, and one has HIV. We knew his family and knew about his life style.

All of us in the body of Christ need each others prayer, support and compassion. All are sinners saved by God's grace and in need of the Great Physician.

Mt. 9:12-13 And when Jesus heard that He said to them: "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. But go and learn what this means 'I desire mercy and not sacrifice.' For I did not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance."

 

Have you noticed though how many gay men used to have wives or girlfriends or have kids? Why? Are they supposed to be gay or not?

You don't hear of straight men who used to have boyfriends, do you?

 

This proves that they are never sure about their sexuality so they are obviously not born that way. It's not just a cover either. There is no reason in this day and age for anybody to be 'closet'. Homosexuality is actually fashionable at the moment thanks to the depraved society that we live in.

[Guest shiloh357]

i think some are born gay and some are not. but some deffinatly are. i have a friend who is gay, and he was already doing different and always sitting with the girls when he was 5 years old.

tigger398: the fact that you cannot win from her in a debate, might be because she is right on certain points. and being gay is not against christianity: only homosexual actions are, as well as gay marriage.

That makes no sense.   Being is expressly called a sin in the Bible.  If gay marriage is a sin it because being gay is a sin.   Paul says that one cannot be gay and enter Kingdom of Heaven (I Cor. 6:9)   So yes, it is against Christianity and the Bible to be gay.