Guest joceiyana Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 (edited) Hi, I've been struggling with a new person that has been accepted into my family. I am honest enough to understand that she does need good Christian guiding that is very much available in my family, but I feel left out now that she's around. I feel like the 3rd wheel now. I don't know if it's jealousy or if it's just me holding onto the past times where I've been replaced by others and basically forgotten (I don't really know if people forget me, but I am often left out). I don't want to be the negativity in the atmosphere. I am not yet strong enough or honest enough to confront my family with my feelings because when I type them out or speak them aloud they sound really juvenile and immature and I would really be heartbroken if someone downplayed or dismissed the way I feel about this. By the way I've been struggling with this for at least three months, so I'm sure that this feeling isn't going anywhere if I don't confront it. I can feel the feeling attempting to consume me. Help, family! Edited October 13, 2014 by joceiyana Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffeespiller87 Posted October 13, 2014 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 212 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1,691 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 449 Days Won: 1 Joined: 03/28/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted October 13, 2014 Hi Joceiyana, Welcome to worthy. This thread is just the welcome area. As soon as you post 5 times u did once already so 4 more posts then u can start a thread in most of the other areas. I would recommend posting this in the Having trouble need advice section. That would be a more appropriate place to be posting this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneLight Posted October 13, 2014 Group: Royal Member Followers: 22 Topic Count: 1,294 Topics Per Day: 0.21 Content Count: 31,762 Content Per Day: 5.24 Reputation: 9,760 Days Won: 115 Joined: 09/14/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted October 13, 2014 Shalom joceiyana.Welcome to Worthy. I moved this thread to a forum where people can answer your question, in hopes that we can help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teditis Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Hi and Welcome Joceiyana. Sorry to hear about that frustrating issue that you're dealing with, I do hope that it's short lived. I'm sure that there are folks here that will try their best to listen to your prayer requests and support you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted October 14, 2014 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 596 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,073 Content Per Day: 7.55 Reputation: 27,821 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted October 14, 2014 I don't think the information you've given is enough to really understand the realationships. it would not be a really good idea to make any suggestions as to how to deal with things without a lot more understanding of everyone involved.... things of this nature can get complicated very quickly and sometimes the hurt feelings can take years to fix and sometimes never. All i can think of is to pray that the lord will take care of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Praying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncn Posted October 14, 2014 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 6 Topic Count: 406 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 5,248 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 1,337 Days Won: 67 Joined: 08/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted October 14, 2014 Praying . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeauJangles Posted October 15, 2014 Group: Royal Member Followers: 44 Topic Count: 229 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 10,900 Content Per Day: 2.93 Reputation: 12,145 Days Won: 68 Joined: 02/13/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/14/1954 Share Posted October 15, 2014 Welcome, and praying for you. God bless, Shalom David/BeauJangles Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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