Forgon Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 4 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/07/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted March 7, 2016 Hey, friends! I am 25 years old. I am totally broken. I was in a serious relationship for around 5 years. He was beside me during all my difficult situation. He has helped me a lot financially and was also a moral support. He had never proposed me. He says he cannot consider me as his partner. To him, I’m just a good friend or maybe a sister. I thought of even ending up my life. But I have no courage to do that either. I tried everything to divert my mind like gardening, music and stuff like that. It has helped me to some extent. Now I am considering a marriage. My friend suggested a dating service in Toronto. She says that dating services provides counselling session and coaching and consulting throughout the process. What is your opinion? Any previous experiences? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FresnoJoe Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 208 Topic Count: 60 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 8,651 Content Per Day: 1.17 Reputation: 5,761 Days Won: 4 Joined: 01/31/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/04/1943 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Beloved, My Opinion What shall I render unto the LORD for all his benefits toward me? I will take the cup of salvation, and call upon the name of the LORD. Psalms 116:12-13 Does Not Matter Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalms 139:23-24 Praying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suray2 Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Members Followers: 3 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 86 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 99 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/25/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted March 7, 2016 5 hours ago, Forgon said: Hey, friends! I am 25 years old. I am totally broken. I was in a serious relationship for around 5 years. He was beside me during all my difficult situation. He has helped me a lot financially and was also a moral support. He had never proposed me. He says he cannot consider me as his partner. To him, I’m just a good friend or maybe a sister. I thought of even ending up my life. But I have no courage to do that either. I tried everything to divert my mind like gardening, music and stuff like that. It has helped me to some extent. Now I am considering a marriage. My friend suggested a dating service in Toronto. She says that dating services provides counselling session and coaching and consulting throughout the process. What is your opinion? Any previous experiences? This is a time to find out what God wants you to do. That is the ONLY way you will be happy. Maybe He wants you to spend time just with Him for I while. Know one can tell you what is between you and God....but I will tell you what happened to me. After a very serious breakup, I felt dejected and betrayed. I felt unloved and unworthy of love. I tried dating some and it was awful! I finally submitted to God and prayed...He let me know He wanted me to spend time with Him, getting to know Him better. I took this to heart and did not pursue other relationships. One day, our of the blue, this thought came into my mind...a still, quiet voice that said..I am preparing someone for you in the same way I am preparing you for them. Oh, the light I felt in my heart...............A few months later I met my now husband...and he is wonderful. Been married 14 years..and each day is better than the last. Just pray and listen for God...this is the only way you will be happy in life. I am praying for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,990 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,688 Content Per Day: 11.83 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 7, 2016 I do not think any man is worth ending your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 596 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,043 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,785 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted March 7, 2016 10 hours ago, Forgon said: Hey, friends! I am 25 years old. I am totally broken. I was in a serious relationship for around 5 years. He was beside me during all my difficult situation. He has helped me a lot financially and was also a moral support. He had never proposed me. He says he cannot consider me as his partner. To him, I’m just a good friend or maybe a sister. I thought of even ending up my life. But I have no courage to do that either. I tried everything to divert my mind like gardening, music and stuff like that. It has helped me to some extent. Now I am considering a marriage. My friend suggested a dating service in Toronto. She says that dating services provides counselling session and coaching and consulting throughout the process. What is your opinion? Any previous experiences? Well, I'm a guy so it might be different..... I found my wife at the Dariy Queen...... went up to get a good hit fudge sunday and there she was.... Took me a while to ask her out for I was terrified she'd say no.... We've been married for 45 years now and nearly 46. So from my experience I guess you should go stand in line at the Dairy Queen till your dream guy comes along.... God will send him... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C_Beth Posted March 7, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 42 Topic Count: 31 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 5,324 Content Per Day: 1.64 Reputation: 3,617 Days Won: 2 Joined: 06/08/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted March 7, 2016 29 minutes ago, other one said: Well, I'm a guy so it might be different..... I found my wife at the Dariy Queen...... went up to get a good hit fudge sunday and there she was.... Took me a while to ask her out for I was terrified she'd say no.... We've been married for 45 years now and nearly 46. So from my experience I guess you should go stand in line at the Dairy Queen till your dream guy comes along.... God will send him... Blessings to you both, OO. Marriages like that are getting harder and harder to find these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted March 8, 2016 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 596 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,043 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,785 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted March 8, 2016 5 hours ago, C_Beth said: Blessings to you both, OO. Marriages like that are getting harder and harder to find these days. There were 4 couples of us who went to college together.... All 4 couples married the same year 1970 and we all had two kids..... girl then a boy... all became Christians after we were married and as of today all are still married and as far as I know love each other dearly. We go to church and are still very close with one of the couples and visit with the others on occasions..... Altogether I would say it is quite remarkable.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C_Beth Posted March 8, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 42 Topic Count: 31 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 5,324 Content Per Day: 1.64 Reputation: 3,617 Days Won: 2 Joined: 06/08/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted March 8, 2016 10 hours ago, other one said: There were 4 couples of us who went to college together.... All 4 couples married the same year 1970 and we all had two kids..... girl then a boy... all became Christians after we were married and as of today all are still married and as far as I know love each other dearly. We go to church and are still very close with one of the couples and visit with the others on occasions..... Altogether I would say it is quite remarkable.. That's awesome, and yes, quite remarkable. Of course, God's plans always are! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien224 Posted March 8, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 82 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,762 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 869 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/09/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/24/1964 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Praying. First you need to work on loving yourself. Then you can love others. I know its really hard. The dating scene is rough and there are plenty of men out there that are not sincere (and women too for that matter) but just pray and trust God and He will send you the perfect partner for you. God bless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RustyAngeL Posted March 10, 2016 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 23 Topic Count: 155 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7,464 Content Per Day: 1.02 Reputation: 8,810 Days Won: 57 Joined: 03/30/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/12/1952 Share Posted March 10, 2016 On 3/7/2016 at 3:22 PM, other one said: Well, I'm a guy so it might be different..... I found my wife at the Dariy Queen...... went up to get a good hit fudge sunday and there she was.... Took me a while to ask her out for I was terrified she'd say no.... We've been married for 45 years now and nearly 46. So from my experience I guess you should go stand in line at the Dairy Queen till your dream guy comes along.... God will send him... Nothing like finding the right one is there other one? I was 30 when I met and married Steve, we had 25 wonderful years together. Yes waiting until the right one comes along is so worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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