Lizam Posted February 21, 2017 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 10 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 11 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/21/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted February 21, 2017 I feel like I made a bad decision in marrying my husband. I believe he has a mental impairment and although he is a teacher he is slow to process information and behaves inappropriately. I have son with him who has a developmental delay which I believe he will overcome. Hisfamily doesn't like me. Hismother is weird and horrible to me. One of his brothers had alabel of mental retardation and overcame it. I didn't truly realize all these things until I gotmarried to him and I can not imagine having another child with him or building a life especially since my in laws treat me horribly. I am miserable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FresnoJoe Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 208 Topic Count: 60 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 8,651 Content Per Day: 1.17 Reputation: 5,761 Days Won: 4 Joined: 01/31/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/04/1943 Share Posted February 22, 2017 Welcome~! ~ Praying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 22, 2017 Share Posted February 22, 2017 Praying for you in this situation, that God will reveal the correct choice... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enoob57 Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 99 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,065 Content Per Day: 7.97 Reputation: 21,392 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Online Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted February 22, 2017 repeat the vows you made to him AND God- Then ask yourself with God's Word and promises do I want Him to break them with me Matthew 7:2 (KJV) [2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. We are in our sin nature predisposed to reason from our own advantage... but if we have asked Jesus into our lives and hearts we have other avenues of consideration like not regarding the short time here as anything to difficult. You have faults as well that he must live with... ask God to move your heart to keep the vows you gave h/Him... Prayed... Love, Steven Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 306 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,130 Content Per Day: 4.63 Reputation: 27,806 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted February 22, 2017 Blessings Lizam Welcome to Worthy............I'm sorry you are going through this at this time and will certainly be praying for you.... This is the "Seekers Lounge" ,this is where unbelievers ,seekers & guests ask us questions(Seeking Answers) about our Faith .....what would you like to ask? Have you or your husband ever considered "Seeking God" together,individually? The place to begin is at the Foot of the Cross,perhaps you can tell us a bit more about what/WHO you Believe and we can start from there ,if you want support,encouragement & advice from us Quote Matthew 6:33King James Version (KJV) 33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Your troubles at home are only a circumstance,God is not a God of circumstance.........with Him ALL things are possible!!! With love-in Christ,Kwik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prophet of change Lou L Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 216 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 366 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/30/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted February 22, 2017 (edited) Praying for you Lizam may Gods peace guide you. in Jesus name amen! Edited February 22, 2017 by Prophet of change Lou L Might not be right place and time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RustyAngeL Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 23 Topic Count: 155 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7,464 Content Per Day: 1.02 Reputation: 8,810 Days Won: 57 Joined: 03/30/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/12/1952 Share Posted February 22, 2017 22 hours ago, Lizam said: I feel like I made a bad decision in marrying my husband. I believe he has a mental impairment and although he is a teacher he is slow to process information and behaves inappropriately. I have son with him who has a developmental delay which I believe he will overcome. Hisfamily doesn't like me. Hismother is weird and horrible to me. One of his brothers had alabel of mental retardation and overcame it. I didn't truly realize all these things until I gotmarried to him and I can not imagine having another child with him or building a life especially since my in laws treat me horribly. I am miserable Welcome to Worthy, Your not married to your in laws. The Bible is clear that the only grounds for a divorce is if infidelity has occurred. When you say he behaves inappropriately what does that mean, in what manner? My question is do you love him and did you not see any of this when you were dating. I would suggest you speak to your pastor. Do you go to church? are you a born again believer in Christ. If not you need to commit your life to Jesus, get involved with a good Bible believing church and go from there. Start praying for your husband too. Blessings, RustyAngeL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,990 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,688 Content Per Day: 11.83 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted February 22, 2017 23 hours ago, Lizam said: I feel like I made a bad decision in marrying my husband. I believe he has a mental impairment and although he is a teacher he is slow to process information and behaves inappropriately. I have son with him who has a developmental delay which I believe he will overcome. Hisfamily doesn't like me. Hismother is weird and horrible to me. One of his brothers had alabel of mental retardation and overcame it. I didn't truly realize all these things until I gotmarried to him and I can not imagine having another child with him or building a life especially since my in laws treat me horribly. I am miserable It is only one side I am seeing here so it is hard to come to a conclusion of your situation. Are you sure that you did not see all of this before you married him? That would be hard to overlook. Are you or your husband a Christian?Did you genuinely love him when you married him? You are married and you do not have a reason for a Biblical divorce. Is he abusive? Maybe you should treat the whole situation with grace and kindness and possibly try to keep your contact with his family at a minimum. In the end it is your choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 306 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,130 Content Per Day: 4.63 Reputation: 27,806 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted February 22, 2017 Blessings Lizam Exactly,I agree with MM....we would love to hear from you.....there is not very much we can say at this point ,we do not even know if you or your husband are Christians etc...... I do hope you will join us here that we may give you encouragement & maybe help answer what questions you may have With love-in Christ,Kwik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willa Posted February 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 68 Topic Count: 185 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 14,224 Content Per Day: 3.33 Reputation: 16,647 Days Won: 30 Joined: 08/14/2012 Status: Offline Share Posted February 22, 2017 God hates divorce. Learn to love your husband as he is. If you can't, invite Jesus Christ into your life, confessing that you can't love him, and ask God to help you see him through His eyes, as a child that He loves so much that He sent His only Son to earth to die for him so that he could be adopted into God's own family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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