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I need some helpful wisdom in the area of Christian marriage...but before I throw everything out there, are there any takers?

Blessings!

 

 

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Welcome to Worthy!

There is no doubt that people here will be more than willing to give advice, but before that begins, just introduce yourself so you can start a thread in the proper forum.  This is the Welcome Forum where new members introduce themselves and we get to know each other.

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1 hour ago, SwordMaster said:

I need some helpful wisdom in the area of Christian marriage...but before I throw everything out there, are there any takers?

Blessings!

 

 

Welcome To Worthy SwordMaster!

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Welcome :)

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Hello and welcome as well :)

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3 hours ago, OneLight said:

Welcome to Worthy!

There is no doubt that people here will be more than willing to give advice, but before that begins, just introduce yourself so you can start a thread in the proper forum.  This is the Welcome Forum where new members introduce themselves and we get to know each other.

Sounds good...what would you like to know!

 

 

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1 hour ago, bonnieschamberger said:

Hello and welcome as well :)

Hello, and thanks!

 

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Welcome  SwordMaster :mgbowtie:

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Be honest about your own actions.

I have found that that is the hardest thing in any Christian marriage.  Telling someone where you are, what you are doing takes practice and the assumption they care.

It isn't just about getting a job, having children, and attending Church services.

The day to day duties of a Christian couple extend into allowing one another insight into each other's activities.

Growth begins there.

We learn by sharing with one another what is going on at work and after.

It builds a basis for a lasting stable marriage that can endure hardships, which appear.

"Hebrews 10:24-25

24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 
25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

"Ephesians 4:2-3

2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 
3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."
Edited by eileenhat

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