warrior12 Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 53 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2,411 Content Per Day: 0.88 Reputation: 1,508 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/05/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 5 minutes ago, missmuffet said: There have been many Christians who have had an affair and that includes Pastors. So humans need boundaries with the opposite sex in the work place. So then, you must go down to your local police station and ask that police offices pair up in equal sexes. After all this is their work place. How do you see offices who do their jobs with male, female partners ?. Look, i think most people who want to live a family life, would try to avoid the pitfalls that can come with careless attitude or a mindless one as of dealing with the opposite sex in the workplace. But, it can hinder your job performance also and be seen as a conflict in productivity in the non-Christian circle. You as a believer, must be as a candle on the lamp stand that shines and radiates. The would be perpetrators would know this is a serious individual and their attempts would be futile. You are a believer and pray to have a happy home and marriage ect, why have phobias about others who have no right to interfere in your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Running Gator Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member * Followers: 8 Topic Count: 91 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 10,596 Content Per Day: 3.70 Reputation: 2,743 Days Won: 25 Joined: 06/16/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted April 22, 2017 16 minutes ago, missmuffet said: There have been many Christians who have had an affair and that includes Pastors. So humans need boundaries with the opposite sex in the work place. Then I guess they took their eyes off God, now didn't they? You are right, humans need boundaries, and adults should be able to make those. If you are relying on your company rules to keep you from having an affair, you are relying on the wrong thing. If one wants to have an affair, no workplace rule will stop it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKay Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 12 Topic Count: 385 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 7,692 Content Per Day: 1.93 Reputation: 4,809 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 51 minutes ago, Running Gator said: If adults cannot figure that stuff out on their own without someone needing to tell them to do it, well there is just something wrong with them. Well they have to put the signs up in the restroom to tell employees to watch their hands and if you can't trust people to know enough to wash their hands well....you know. You know I am just joking. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKay Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 12 Topic Count: 385 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 7,692 Content Per Day: 1.93 Reputation: 4,809 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 31 minutes ago, missmuffet said: There have been many Christians who have had an affair and that includes Pastors. So humans need boundaries with the opposite sex in the work place. Back in my 20's there was this older married guy at work who kept asking me out. I told him sure, and we can bring your wife along too. He didn't like that ideal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Running Gator Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member * Followers: 8 Topic Count: 91 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 10,596 Content Per Day: 3.70 Reputation: 2,743 Days Won: 25 Joined: 06/16/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted April 22, 2017 12 minutes ago, LadyKay said: Well they have to put the signs up in the restroom to tell employees to watch their hands and if you can't trust people to know enough to wash their hands well....you know. You know I am just joking. LOL Can't argue with that logic! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Running Gator Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member * Followers: 8 Topic Count: 91 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 10,596 Content Per Day: 3.70 Reputation: 2,743 Days Won: 25 Joined: 06/16/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted April 22, 2017 1 hour ago, LadyKay said: Back in my 20's there was this older married guy at work who kept asking me out. I told him sure, and we can bring your wife along too. He didn't like that ideal. When I first read this is thought it said "back in the 20's" instead of "back in my 20's"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,990 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,688 Content Per Day: 11.83 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 I have had to struggle with married men approaching me in the work place. And not just once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Running Gator Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member * Followers: 8 Topic Count: 91 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 10,596 Content Per Day: 3.70 Reputation: 2,743 Days Won: 25 Joined: 06/16/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted April 22, 2017 12 minutes ago, Davida said: You did not get my PT so just forget it. Your argument has been from the beginning the same deal --to twist the choice of any men acting with respect for women to be demeaning and a double standard. I'll follow the Bible, thanks! Pretty sure the bible does not say to hold door open for women...but I could be wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKay Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 12 Topic Count: 385 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 7,692 Content Per Day: 1.93 Reputation: 4,809 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 23 minutes ago, Running Gator said: When I first read this is thought it said "back in the 20's" instead of "back in my 20's"... I'm not that old! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted April 22, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 306 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,130 Content Per Day: 4.63 Reputation: 27,806 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2017 Quote hours ago, kwikphilly said: Blessings Brother Absolutely not,I think he is a wise man and it sounds like something my husband would do out of respect for me,I would think any decent woman(the one who is not his wife) would appreciate the gesture,imo Could you explain how your husband doing that would be disrespectful to you? Running Gator Blessings RG.....No,,no,I did not say "Disrespectful......;read it again please,I said it WOULD BE RESPECTFUL of me,lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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