wingnut- Posted June 14, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 39 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7,673 Content Per Day: 1.31 Reputation: 7,358 Days Won: 67 Joined: 04/22/2008 Status: Offline Share Posted June 14, 2017 9 minutes ago, Gentle Fawn said: My friend and I, had a nice long talk; she listened and I calmly, but firmly told her how I felt about her pressuring me: she received it very well and is not offended either. We both have learned something new about each other and now I know that she truly does love me and is a real friend! This is awesome, I never had a friendship like this before! Now I have 3, this amazes me, truly God is listening to me and answering my prayers and fulfilling my needs. Praise the Lord! Thank you, for your most helpful instruction, I listened and put it to work and had success! And I am grateful that I didn't go into more detail, I can see that that was a wise choice. Only two misread what I said, the rest of you understood and listened with your hearts! God bless you all! God bless you gentle fawn, so happy to hear the good report. I am sorry if you were upset by anything that I said on your thread, will keep you in my prayers. I am always available if you need to talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 30 minutes ago, Gentle Fawn said: OK. Now this is getting down right upsetting, Blue-eyed Jewel, I never thought that anyone would turn my need for assistance into an argument about who read what I was attempting to explain! Willa, Abby-Joy and Wingnut, got it right; they didn't need the details that I couldn't and chose not to give. Now that I have read this, I am thankful that I didn't say more than I did. You want details, but they heard my heart! It is extremely difficult for me to type out my thoughts, so much of the time I find that I leave a lot of words out, and don't even know it. I am having to learn to reread everything that I write. Blue, you need to soften your approach, and listen more. Gentle Fawn Im sorry that you took my reasoning as arguing. I wasnt arguing with anyone. I really wasnt. I simply didnt want to give advice because I did feel that I needed more info. Evidently, I did more harm than good. Im glad that it all turned out good for you! I really am. I apologize if I offended you or anyone else. That was not my intent. I guess my past experiences on advice threads in christian sites have taught me that not everyone is forth coming or honest . I have seen huge messes play out because the OP was vague. It has kinda molded me to ask more questions before I give advice. Perhaps I was being overly cautious .I can see that this is not appreciated here. I will refrain from this kind of thread here. As for taking your advice; I didnt ask. I will pass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 On 6/12/2017 at 4:35 AM, Tanusha said: We are supposed to be responding to the OP. Instead, we are commenting and analyzing each other's comments. One OP's problem is branching into other unrelated quarrels. Do you see what i see? Does it matter who is a straight shooter or crooked shooter? Typical of all other forums, people end up attacking one another instead of the problem or issue itself and instead of answering the direct OP's question or problem, other sub questions emerge leading to nowhere in the end. I think if any, the OP should answer or the questions should direct back to her.. instead of criticizing and speculating among one another. Sorry i had to point it out. Im tired of this repetitive patterns in forums. Sorry if i said anything wrong. I hope the OP responds and provide clearer explanation to avoid these kinds of misunderstandings. As far as I knew I was discussing with wingnut. I can see now that we should have taken it elsewhere if at all. I was not attacking but thank you for the nice label. I wasnt criticizing either. Im sorry your past experiences led to you letting me have it. I must have been the straw that broke the camels back eh? I didnt mean to offend anyone. I apologize if I did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 29 minutes ago, wingnut- said: God bless you gentle fawn, so happy to hear the good report. I am sorry if you were upset by anything that I said on your thread, will keep you in my prayers. I am always available if you need to talk. I am sorry if I offended you wingnut. I didnt intend to. I wasnt attacking you or arguing either. I was just reasoning it out in my mind. Evidently I rubbed people the wrong way and perhaps you too. I apologize if that is the case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estrella Posted June 14, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 26 Topic Count: 33 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 813 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 1,002 Days Won: 1 Joined: 03/11/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted June 14, 2017 Not sure where you are getting at but it applies to everyone in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wingnut- Posted June 14, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 39 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7,673 Content Per Day: 1.31 Reputation: 7,358 Days Won: 67 Joined: 04/22/2008 Status: Offline Share Posted June 14, 2017 2 minutes ago, Blueyedjewel said: I am sorry if I offended you wingnut. I didnt intend to. I wasnt attacking you or arguing either. I was just reasoning it out in my mind. Evidently I rubbed people the wrong way and perhaps you too. I apologize if that is the case. No sister, I am not offended and no need to apologize to me. I know you meant well. God bless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 On 6/11/2017 at 2:15 PM, Abby-Joy said: Then kindly advise for both scenarios.... case solved. Good idea. I wish Id thought of that before I obviously got the thread all riled up. Thank you for not giving me a tongue lashing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 1 minute ago, wingnut- said: No sister, I am not offended and no need to apologize to me. I know you meant well. God bless Thank you for your kindness. Blessings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estrella Posted June 14, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 26 Topic Count: 33 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 813 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 1,002 Days Won: 1 Joined: 03/11/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted June 14, 2017 37 minutes ago, Blueyedjewel said: As far as I knew I was discussing with wingnut. I can see now that we should have taken it elsewhere if at all. I was not attacking but thank you for the nice label. I wasnt criticizing either. Im sorry your past experiences led to you letting me have it. I must have been the straw that broke the camels back eh? I didnt mean to offend anyone. I apologize if I did. It was meant to be general.. i read ur other reply. I understand what you said there. Im sorry if i misquoted you or anything. Understandably this is a forum, we only rely on words and we won't know the intonation thus misinterpretation happen. I apologise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gentle Fawn Posted June 14, 2017 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 54 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 138 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 284 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/14/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted June 14, 2017 This may sound strange to anyone who has not had my experiences in life. I am just now learning how to form my emotions into words and then speak them (that is a rather shocking experience when you are not use to it). The Lord has recently freed me from a life long state of emotional paralysis, so I am just learning to do what you all are seasoned at doing. If I am vague it is because I really do not know how to talk any different, it is a lack of experience, not a case of dishonesty. Typing everything out is a major pain for me for a number of reasons. One I have to do it in the dark ( I can't see the keys) and I cannot type well on top of it. My mind is addled from too many medications, it is effecting me cognitively, my brain is in a heavy fog most of the time. I am also battling certain diseases that also effect me mentally. With all of that going on I shouldn't even post anything! Yes, if we could talk to one another that would solve a lot of issues, but that is not an option. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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