zorgblar Posted October 2, 2017 Group: Seeker Followers: 1 Topic Count: 154 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 356 Content Per Day: 0.10 Reputation: 124 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/07/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted October 2, 2017 I posted this before but I think it got lost somehow.Me and my cousin were swimming in the pool(me 29 and her 13).And I was wearing swim trunks and she was wearing a bikini top and bottoms.When all of a sudden my cousins bikini top flys off!After that incident, I can't stop looking at my cousin weird every time I see her.:(How can I get over the feeling of feeling weird around her?:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zorgblar Posted October 2, 2017 Group: Seeker Followers: 1 Topic Count: 154 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 356 Content Per Day: 0.10 Reputation: 124 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/07/2014 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 2, 2017 I am sorry if this has already been posted.But I can't find my other post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GandalfTheWise Posted October 2, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 24 Topic Count: 40 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,459 Content Per Day: 0.60 Reputation: 2,377 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted October 2, 2017 Embarrassing moments happen in life to pretty much everyone. About a month ago, my 26 YO daughter (who thought that my wife and I were out for a walk, we came back early) came walking out of the bathroom after a shower to get a forgotten towel from the laundry room. She had no idea we were standing there. I was thanking God that it was my wife standing by the door and that my back was turned and I was facing the other direction. I've got no good advice except maybe not to dwell on it, just be as normal as possible going forward, and I'd lean toward never talking about it (except maybe 20 or 30 years from now to laugh about it at a family reunion after she brings it up). My experience is that embarrassing moments tend to fade with time. Maybe somebody else has some better input on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Butero Posted October 4, 2017 Share Posted October 4, 2017 On 10/2/2017 at 3:40 PM, zorgblar said: I posted this before but I think it got lost somehow.Me and my cousin were swimming in the pool(me 29 and her 13).And I was wearing swim trunks and she was wearing a bikini top and bottoms.When all of a sudden my cousins bikini top flys off!After that incident, I can't stop looking at my cousin weird every time I see her.:(How can I get over the feeling of feeling weird around her?:( Satan is messing with your head over this. It shouldn't be that big of a deal, and I would think she would be the one having the most trouble getting past it, not you. Are you talking about weird, or are you having inappropriate thoughts of her? There is a big difference. If it is just a weird feeling, it should pass. If it is inappropriate thoughts, the devil is likely messing with your head, causing you to have those feelings. Are you married? Just try to act normal, and like nothing happened, and if you have wrong thoughts towards her, immediately reject them, or as the Bible says, take them captive, and don't dwell on them. Don't let this turn into something a lot worse. You might want to consider bringing this into the Men's Forum, if you think it would be better to discuss it there. The moderators have the password. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 5, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,990 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,688 Content Per Day: 11.84 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted October 5, 2017 On 10/2/2017 at 12:40 PM, zorgblar said: I posted this before but I think it got lost somehow.Me and my cousin were swimming in the pool(me 29 and her 13).And I was wearing swim trunks and she was wearing a bikini top and bottoms.When all of a sudden my cousins bikini top flys off!After that incident, I can't stop looking at my cousin weird every time I see her.:(How can I get over the feeling of feeling weird around her?:( It was definitely an embarrassing moment for you and for your cousin. What do you mean by looking at her "weird". What are your feelings when you look at her now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zorgblar Posted October 5, 2017 Group: Seeker Followers: 1 Topic Count: 154 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 356 Content Per Day: 0.10 Reputation: 124 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/07/2014 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 It's weird because my female cousin is the first girl that i have seen without a shirt and bra on.I always thought it would be some other girl and not my cousin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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