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I need help can anyone assist me

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Ask God to make you the husband that she needs.

Love and forgive your spouse as Christ has.  Christ loved her so much that while we were yet sinners He gave his life and suffered in her place on the cross so that she might be forgiven.   

Accept her just the way she is and don't try to change her.  That is God's job to make us more like Jesus.

Pray aloud for her every day that God would show you how to meet her emotional needs, and that she would find joy.  Pray for anything you know she is having a problem about.

Giver her a hug and just hold her for a little while just for her benefit.  

Read 1 Peter 3 noting the things you should try to practice, and then do the same with Ephesians

Ask her what you can do to help her.  Humble yourself before God and before your wife.  

LISTEN TO HER.  SOMETIMES SHE JUST NEEDS TO TALK AND UNLOAD HER FEELINGS.  SOMETIMES SHE HAS LEGITIMATE CONCERNS.

Go to marriage conferences.  Many are offered through churches.  Some are non denominational.  

 

Eph 4:22  NKJV  that you put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts,

Eph 4:23  and be renewed in the spirit of your mind,

Eph 4:24  and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness.

Eph 4:25  Therefore, putting away lying, "LET EACH ONE OF YOU SPEAK TRUTH WITH HIS NEIGHBOR," for we are members of one another.

Eph 4:26  "BE ANGRY, AND DO NOT SIN": do not let the sun go down on your wrath,

Eph 4:27  nor give place to the devil.

Eph 4:28  Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need.

Eph 4:29  Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.

Eph 4:30  And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

Eph 4:31  Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.

Eph 4:32  And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

Eph 5:25  Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,

Eph 5:26  that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,

Eph 5:27  that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.

Eph 5:28  So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.

Eph 5:29  For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.

Eph 5:30  For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.

Eph 5:31  "FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH."

Eph 5:32  This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

Eph 5:33  Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects herhusband.

1Pe 3:7  Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.

1Pe 3:8  Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous;

1Pe 3:9  not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.

1Pe 3:10  For "HE WHO WOULD LOVE LIFE AND SEE GOOD DAYS, LET HIM REFRAIN HIS TONGUE FROM EVIL, AND HIS LIPS FROM SPEAKING DECEIT.

1Pe 3:11  LET HIM TURN AWAY FROM EVIL AND DO GOOD; LET HIM SEEK PEACE AND PURSUE IT.

1Pe 3:12  FOR THE EYES OF THE LORD ARE ON THE RIGHTEOUS, AND HIS EARS ARE OPEN TO THEIR PRAYERS; BUT THE FACE OF THE LORD IS AGAINST THOSE WHO DO EVIL."

1Pe 3:13  And who is he who will harm you if you become followers of what is good?

1Pe 3:14  But even if you should suffer for righteousness' sake, you are blessed. "AND DO NOT BE AFRAID OF THEIR THREATS, NOR BE TROUBLED."

1Co 13:4  Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;

1Co 13:5  does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;

1Co 13:6  does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;

1Co 13:7  bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

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On 10/18/2017 at 8:45 AM, Leadthumbs said:

I need help can anyone assist me

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