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I am in relationship of 1 year and 3 month with my current girlfriend however My Mum thinks I should date other women and compare them to my girlfriend because my Mum feels my girlfriend is not a strong decision maker which could damage our future. Would you compare your current girlfriend because her flaws to other women and decide from there who you are going to marry or accept her for what she is? My Girlfriend is Godly but i do not think comparing is right

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On 11/14/2017 at 3:59 PM, James1991 said:

I am in relationship of 1 year and 3 month with my current girlfriend however My Mum thinks I should date other women and compare them to my girlfriend because my Mum feels my girlfriend is not a strong decision maker which could damage our future. Would you compare your current girlfriend because her flaws to other women and decide from there who you are going to marry or accept her for what she is? My Girlfriend is Godly but i do not think comparing is right

Are you young and depend on your mother? It is much better to be independent in these matters. 

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How old are you James?

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16 minutes ago, James1991 said:

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Ok so you are old enough to make your own decisions. Your mother may have an opinion but that is all it is. It is your choice if you want to take her advise. Are both of you born again Christians? If that is the case you both should give your relationship to God. It is important to know a person well before getting into a serious relationship. Don't rush things. Getting married and living with that person for a lifetime is a huge commitment. It is also heartbreaking if you have chosen the wrong person.

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