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I am so sad.  I have recently moved to a new city.  I also have a new job.  The place where I live is horrible.  There are drug dealers living across the hall and the upstairs neighbors are screamers and frequently wake me up in the middle of the night.  I have gone to my landlord many times but nothing changes.  The lack of sleep is getting to me.  I know that God is always with me, I know that God strengthens me.  I know that nothing happens to me that does not pass through God’s loving presence.  I would really like to live a quiet, peaceful life but I am not sure that is God’s plan for me.  My life has been tumultuous for several years now.  Before I moved here my husband had been sick for many months but I had a great church family.  Now even though that was hard this is worse because I miss those good, Christian people in my life.    I could really use some Christian love and insight.

thanks

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2 minutes ago, Blue Lulu said:

peaceful life but I am not sure that is God’s plan for me.

I know it may be hard to be in your situation, but complaining will not solve anything, on the contrary it will just makes things worse.

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication,
    with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God" - Philippians 4:6

 

Then I would just pray and wait on God. It is the best thing to do, praying and having patience can do wonders... But complaining?! No, just makes things worse.

"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time,
    casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." - 1 Peter 5:6-7

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Could you please point out where I am complaining.  I believe I am just stating the realities of my life right now.  Please explain to me the difference between complaining and stating facts.

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14 minutes ago, Blue Lulu said:

I am so sad.

2 minutes ago, Blue Lulu said:

Could you please point out where I am complaining.

Sorry. I understand how is to feel that way... I am just not that good with emotional help, then sorry if I am sounding too harsh, it is not my intention.

 

The only solution I found for my sadness was to get closer to the Lord Jesus. He is the only who can really help us in any circumstances, as He knows us very well.

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Hang in there ,lulu.......I am sure many others here will be praying for you.God bless

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I'm praying for you.  Sometimes our lives take turns that we don't like.  Take your troubles and tell the Lord about it.  Ask him to show you where are the areas that you can thrive.  

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3 hours ago, Blue Lulu said:

I am so sad.  I have recently moved to a new city.  I also have a new job.  The place where I live is horrible.  There are drug dealers living across the hall and the upstairs neighbors are screamers and frequently wake me up in the middle of the night.  I have gone to my landlord many times but nothing changes.  The lack of sleep is getting to me.  I know that God is always with me, I know that God strengthens me.  I know that nothing happens to me that does not pass through God’s loving presence.  I would really like to live a quiet, peaceful life but I am not sure that is God’s plan for me.  My life has been tumultuous for several years now.  Before I moved here my husband had been sick for many months but I had a great church family.  Now even though that was hard this is worse because I miss those good, Christian people in my life.    I could really use some Christian love and insight.

thanks

 

Short of moving, maybe you could try getting some good ear plugs for sleeping?  It may help enough so that you aren't disturbed.  Praying for you, God bless.

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4 hours ago, Blue Lulu said:

I miss those good, Christian people in my life.    I could really use some Christian love and insight.

If anyone can find "good Christian people" to be with in life,  DO SO, as written in Scripture "seek out those who are faithful...." wherever you are.    Can you go back to them, or get 'referrals' if they know of any you could move to ?

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Thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers.  It is nice to know people care.

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The ear plugs sound like a good idea.  If it's possible, maybe you can search for a new apartment.   I know sometimes it's hard to move.  Also, I hope you find a nice church.

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