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mrunk1975

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Hello @mrunk1975

All good advice here, I'll provide some examples that will help you get closer to God. When you experience that closeness, you'll yearn for more, and you'll feel less consumed by worldly addictions (sanctification).

  • Get the bible app on your phone. In the plans section you'll find free devotionals. Browse by topic for areas in which you struggle. Commit to doing 1-3 topics per day in your devotional.
  • Go to church on Sundays.
  • Join a men's group, in-person. The internet is a good low barrier to entry, but there is no replacement for "doing life" side-by-side with other like-minded men. Think of Jesus' group, and model it after Him.
  • Run from sin and satan's lies. Don't fall into the traps grown men fall into: alcohol, lust, pre-marital sex, love of money, pride.
  • Pick 1 good book to go through at a time that will allow you to dive deep. Here is the first one I'd recommend: Beyond the Battle: A Man's Guide to his Identity in Christ in an Oversexualized World

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Hi, thanks for sharing. It's actually a good thing the relationship ended. She was married. She's proven she can't be trusted. You were her "side guy" for 9 years. Don't feel guilty about anything involving her. You're not responsible for her. She's a big girl and I'm sure she'll know how to deal with her spouse long after you fade out of the picture. Move on with your life 

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