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Hi my name is Micki. Can you please pray for my husband Brian... I pray that he would want to come home..
He cheated and left me at the beginning of 2018 for our teenage girl next door that he only knew for a few weeks.
We were together for 6 year and only had been married for 4 months before this happened. No fights between us nothing before this happened. Idk what changed in him he isnt the type to do this kind of stuff. I have also been dealing with cancer while going through this at the same time. I juse finished up chemo and radiation treatments. And reached out to Brian in October.
 We have only just now slowly started talking again. I just pray that God would be with him and that he would want to come back home to me and want to rebuild our family and marriage again. I do forgive him and I do love him unconditionally. It just breaks my heart so much. I just pray so hard that God could get through to him. I know only God can. I pray that Brian could find Jesus and have a relationship with him. I know Brian is an amazing man, he jas just made some mistakes the same as we all do. I know God as a plan for his life. 
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So sorry to hear about your trials. the Lord has a plan for everyone, hang in there and pray is all I can say to you at present.

I have seen it from another perspective and it is so very sad. No one can give you happiness; that comes from within yourself. Even your man can not obtain your happiness. He might contribute to it, but your happiness is your responsibility. You and the Lord.

Pray and make God happy with your praise - even tearful praise. See what happens.

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Praying for you. God can restore your marriage if it's his will. Keep praying and don't give up.

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Am I to understand that your husband is both an unbeliever and an adulterer? And that this adultery is still happening with a minor?

All this while you were battling cancer?

Why would you even want him back?

Sorry, I can't pray for someone who has absolutely no respect for you, to return to you, and get more chances to hurt you..

But, I will pray that God looks out for your needs and brings you peace. 

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I am so sorry Micki that you had to have cancer treatments and deal with this at the same time.  I hope and pray for healing from your cancer and good health for you.  Praying your husband will get saved and repent and you can restore your marriage.   May God richly bless you.

 

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Father, it is You who is always faithful.  You are the One who has remained faithful to Micki throughout her separation from her husband and throughout her cancer treatments.  You are the One who gave her the grace and strength she needed to get through each day.  You are the One beside her right now.  Comfort her in her sadness and once again, give her courage and strength as she tries to rebuild a relationship with her husband.  Help her to shine in his eyes as one "more precious than pearls." Help him to see clearly the ugliness of what he has done and repent.  Help them both to build a relationship together with You.  I ask these things in Jesus' name.... Amen.

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21 hours ago, Micki87 said:
Hi my name is Micki. Can you please pray for my husband Brian... I pray that he would want to come home..
He cheated and left me at the beginning of 2018 for our teenage girl next door that he only knew for a few weeks.
We were together for 6 year and only had been married for 4 months before this happened. No fights between us nothing before this happened. Idk what changed in him he isnt the type to do this kind of stuff. I have also been dealing with cancer while going through this at the same time. I juse finished up chemo and radiation treatments. And reached out to Brian in October.
 We have only just now slowly started talking again. I just pray that God would be with him and that he would want to come back home to me and want to rebuild our family and marriage again. I do forgive him and I do love him unconditionally. It just breaks my heart so much. I just pray so hard that God could get through to him. I know only God can. I pray that Brian could find Jesus and have a relationship with him. I know Brian is an amazing man, he jas just made some mistakes the same as we all do. I know God as a plan for his life. 

This is a difficult prayer due to the fact that God was not at the start of your relationship... if I understand that which I underlined in bold. You see God has established a foundation upon Himself and once a person is born again of the substance of that Foundation they begin to build according to what is prescribed in the blue print of life called Scriptures... Marriage by living together first is not prescribed in the Bible as the way to start a marriage and now this. Makes prayer almost impossible to start for where did God have priority in your marriage? I will pray in love for His Will be done in this but I have no idea where God's Will in this would be ...

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