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I would just like to go ahead am state to anyone that keeps saying things like God wasn't at the beginning of the relationship. Well god wasnt a part of my life at all until recently. I've only just started to have god in my life. So I do not feel like it's that big of a request to pray that Brian would come to the Lord too.

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24 minutes ago, Micki87 said:

I would just like to go ahead am state to anyone that keeps saying things like God wasn't at the beginning of the relationship. Well god wasnt a part of my life at all until recently. I've only just started to have god in my life. So I do not feel like it's that big of a request to pray that Brian would come to the Lord too.

 

It is a wonderful prayer request, and I am praying for the same thing.

God bless

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To clear up anything. God was not a part of my life until recently.

Like within only a few months have I discovered god and truly praying. So please understand that to me I feel like what Brian did was a mistake and he is as human as I am. I have made lots of mistakes in my life and was forgiven. I would love nothing more than to see him forgiven as well and come to the Lord. I would love to have a home with him again as I do love and care for him deeply. But I would love to see him saved and understand what I have just recently understood.

Thank you to everyone praying! It meas so much to me and I know it will help. I appreciate everyone single one of you. And I feel there is a reason behind this all.

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4 hours ago, Micki87 said:

To clear up anything. God was not a part of my life until recently.

Like within only a few months have I discovered god and truly praying. So please understand that to me I feel like what Brian did was a mistake and he is as human as I am. I have made lots of mistakes in my life and was forgiven. I would love nothing more than to see him forgiven as well and come to the Lord. I would love to have a home with him again as I do love and care for him deeply. But I would love to see him saved and understand what I have just recently understood.

Thank you to everyone praying! It meas so much to me and I know it will help. I appreciate everyone single one of you. And I feel there is a reason behind this all.

Don't worry too much. I pray the lord gives you hope and a peace in your heart. It's really wonderful you have come to know the lord. I think the lord will bring him back to you in due time. Just commit your will to his will. Even long time Christian's make mistakes. Even pastors do. We don't stop being human when we receive the holy spirit. 

          God bless you.

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14 hours ago, Micki87 said:

To clear up anything. God was not a part of my life until recently.

Like within only a few months have I discovered god and truly praying. So please understand that to me I feel like what Brian did was a mistake and he is as human as I am. I have made lots of mistakes in my life and was forgiven. I would love nothing more than to see him forgiven as well and come to the Lord. I would love to have a home with him again as I do love and care for him deeply. But I would love to see him saved and understand what I have just recently understood.

Thank you to everyone praying! It meas so much to me and I know it will help. I appreciate everyone single one of you. And I feel there is a reason behind this all.

Psalm 37:3-5 New King James Version (NKJV)

Trust in the Lord, and do good;
Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.
Delight yourself also in the Lord,
And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Commit[a] your way to the Lord,
Trust also in Him,
And He shall bring it to pass.

Micki, God promises us that if we put Him first by "feeding on His faithfulness" in the Word and "delighting" in what He has accomplished, He will give us the desires of our heart--because if we put Him first, our desires will naturally line up with His will.  His will IS that all come to repentance (even a wayward husband)!  2 Peter 3:9 says, "The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance."  A wife's prayer for her husband is powerful!  You are a new creation in Christ, and it is commendable that you desire the same for your husband.  I and many others here will be praying that his heart will be willing to be broken and laid bare before Jesus, who can restore and make all things new.  If God has another plan for you, He will reveal it along the way.  May you remain steadfast and continue to be blessed in your new walk with Christ!  

 

 

 

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Just thought we should remember these verses:

Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.  1 Peter 3.

Praying your husband truly repents and wants to reconcile with you and for his salvation and for you.  Hang in there!

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