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That was a 30 years girl. After about 3 days of acquintance I found another girl of 27 years and better profession at the same dating site in the same city (and the same denomination, I am confused by the fact that they may go to the same church).

I decided to marry the second girl, because she is younger and has better profession (teacher). And she seems to love me from our first meeting. I decided to stop my searching for any other girls.

This is a decided issue, so I don't need an advice anymore.

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19 hours ago, porton said:

That was a 30 years girl. After about 3 days of acquintance I found another girl of 27 years and better profession at the same dating site in the same city (and the same denomination, I am confused by the fact that they may go to the same church).

I decided to marry the second girl, because she is younger and has better profession (teacher). And she seems to love me from our first meeting. I decided to stop my searching for any other girls.

This is a decided issue, so I don't need an advice anymore.

I have a question that may not be settled.....     are you willing to love this girl with the same love that Jesus loves the church as we are commanded to do....    Will you put her needs first.  Would you be willing to stand by and let some group of people beat you half to death if it was needed for her.....   even to the point of being hanged on a tree to die.....

If you are not then you shouldn't get married at all.

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On 3/22/2019 at 6:01 PM, porton said:

That was a 30 years girl. After about 3 days of acquintance I found another girl of 27 years and better profession at the same dating site in the same city (and the same denomination, I am confused by the fact that they may go to the same church).

I decided to marry the second girl, because she is younger and has better profession (teacher). And she seems to love me from our first meeting. I decided to stop my searching for any other girls.

This is a decided issue, so I don't need an advice anymore.

Wow such a very foreign to me way of thinking, interesting, thanks for sharing, though I really can't grasp it.

But good luck, and God bless to both of the ladies.

 

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On 3/23/2019 at 1:42 PM, other one said:

I have a question that may not be settled.....     are you willing to love this girl with the same love that Jesus loves the church as we are commanded to do....    Will you put her needs first.  Would you be willing to stand by and let some group of people beat you half to death if it was needed for her.....   even to the point of being hanged on a tree to die.....

If you are not then you shouldn't get married at all.

I wish people would have thought about this and still about this for those who want to justify and see divorcement as a good thing or believing divorcement is God's will for some people. But if all the answers were yes to your questions, then it would show God wouldn't want people to marry  who wouldn't be like that and would likely want or end in a divorcement, but for no to those answers, it's much better off never to marry. I never planned a woman to be a certain age and I didn't care, because I was counting on God to either lead me to or bring the woman to me that He had planned for me to marry at whatever age He wants of any kind of woman He wants me to marry. I waited and it was clear who to marry when the time came. All I needed to know was that it was obvious it was the person the Lord had planned for me to marry. All this stuff about looking for someone specifically, is like a selfish way of hunting for your favorite type of meat that may not be the healthiest kind for you to eat either. Rather, I knew if I set God's will before mine in everything, then if it is His will for me to marry, one day that lady will be added to my life. 

Matthew 6;33

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

 

The Lord wasn't lying or even using a metaphor when He said this. It is true. I can live a complete life of faith when I keep this in mind about pretty much everything, that if the Lord's kingdom and what is righteous is what I am seeking, then all other things will be added. Basically, if you're pursuing the will of God, then He will somehow add you to a marriage with the person He has planned for you to marry. 

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I don't think there is a prefered age to this,it is when the person is fully ready to get married.

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