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This is a difficult time. I pray the Lord can give me the strength to say everything and be honest about committing adultery. I pray the Lord will guide him to forgive me for what I’ve done. God bless you all. 

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1 hour ago, Amyhoff said:

This is a difficult time. I pray the Lord can give me the strength to say everything and be honest about committing adultery. I pray the Lord will guide him to forgive me for what I’ve done. God bless you all. 

You pray to God for guidance and direction and then you write the letter. God has forgiven you. Will your husband? You must also forgive yourself and never commit that sin again. I don't know if there will be consequences. 

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Restoration is always God's will.  I think if you are sincerely sorry and don't turn it into a letter blaming your husband for playing a part in it, there is a chance he will forgive you.  Praying.

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I blame myself 100%

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4 minutes ago, Amyhoff said:

I blame myself 100%

I hope and pray it works out.

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Thank you. I don’t have much faith after what I’ve done. 

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1 hour ago, Amyhoff said:

This is a difficult time. I pray the Lord can give me the strength to say everything and be honest about committing adultery. I pray the Lord will guide him to forgive me for what I’ve done. God bless you all. 

It might be worth talking to an experienced pastor or Christian counselor for advice.  A few simple practical suggestions from someone who has experience in what goes on in such situations might help.

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I’m embarrassed to go face to face and admit everything. 

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1 hour ago, Amyhoff said:

I’m embarrassed to go face to face and admit everything. 

The reality is that a letter or a conversation is a starting point.  I have the feeling you and your husband will have need of an experienced pastor or Christian counselor in the weeks and months ahead.  This will probably be a difficult road to travel.  It would be helpful to have input and assistance from someone who has seen many other couples travel this path and recover their marriages.

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God bless you, too. We'll be praying for you.

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