Waiting2BwithHim Posted July 7, 2019 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 248 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 373 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 113 Days Won: 5 Joined: 04/18/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 09/10/1963 Share Posted July 7, 2019 These are both hypothetical situations and never happened.. This is more of a getting hopefully both men and women views of this.. Linda is married to Ken and ken's best friends name is Tony. Ken tells Linda that he has a business meeting out of town that will be for the weekend. By the time Ken gets back he catches Linda in an affair with Tony? What should he do? Now vice versa where Linda goes out on business and when she gets home she catches him in an affair with her best friend Jennifer? What should she do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted July 7, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 593 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 55,875 Content Per Day: 7.55 Reputation: 27,626 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted July 7, 2019 would depend on whether or not they had children... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayin jade Posted July 7, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 44 Topic Count: 6,178 Topics Per Day: 0.88 Content Count: 43,784 Content Per Day: 6.23 Reputation: 11,227 Days Won: 58 Joined: 01/03/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted July 7, 2019 Ideally, biblically, they will forgive and fix the marriage. However if the heart is hard, then Jesus did say divorce was permissable. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeauJangles Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 44 Topic Count: 229 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 10,900 Content Per Day: 2.95 Reputation: 12,145 Days Won: 68 Joined: 02/13/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/14/1954 Share Posted July 8, 2019 10 minutes ago, other one said: would depend on whether or not they had children... This entire hypothetical story just got extremely sordid. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BibleStudent100 Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 398 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 339 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 8, 2019 So if read the hypothetical situation, you are really asking if adultery terminates the marital union? The Bible allows for a married person to terminate his or her marital union on the grounds of a mate’s sexual immorality. (Matthew 19:9) This means that after an act of infidelity, the innocent mate has the right to decide whether to remain with the unfaithful mate or to pursue a divorce. This is a personal decision.—Galatians 6:5. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,989 Topics Per Day: 0.49 Content Count: 48,687 Content Per Day: 11.89 Reputation: 30,342 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 8, 2019 6 hours ago, Waiting2BwithHim said: These are both hypothetical situations and never happened.. This is more of a getting hopefully both men and women views of this.. Linda is married to Ken and ken's best friends name is Tony. Ken tells Linda that he has a business meeting out of town that will be for the weekend. By the time Ken gets back he catches Linda in an affair with Tony? What should he do? Now vice versa where Linda goes out on business and when she gets home she catches him in an affair with her best friend Jennifer? What should she do? Are these people unbelievers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neighbor Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 18 Topic Count: 940 Topics Per Day: 0.35 Content Count: 13,416 Content Per Day: 5.02 Reputation: 8,958 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/04/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/03/1885 Share Posted July 8, 2019 42 minutes ago, missmuffet said: Are these people unbelievers? Hypothetically? ------------------------------------------------------- Well then : What is their age difference? Are they of the same race? What is their educational history did they complete college? Are their parents living or not? What if one is Christian and the other is not? What if the transgressor is Christian and the sinned against individual is not? ------ Bad things happen. Bad things happen to good people. Good people do bad things. Marriage is a second best choice in the first place, but it is better to marry than to burn with desire. - For most that is a hypothetical option for many if not most do burn with desire. ------ There is enough trouble in the day without dealing with those that are hypothetical. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayin jade Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 44 Topic Count: 6,178 Topics Per Day: 0.88 Content Count: 43,784 Content Per Day: 6.23 Reputation: 11,227 Days Won: 58 Joined: 01/03/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted July 8, 2019 1 hour ago, Neighbor said: Hypothetically? ------------------------------------------------------- Are they of the same race? ------ ------ What does that have to do with anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeauJangles Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 44 Topic Count: 229 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 10,900 Content Per Day: 2.95 Reputation: 12,145 Days Won: 68 Joined: 02/13/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/14/1954 Share Posted July 8, 2019 8 hours ago, Waiting2BwithHim said: What should he do? What should she do? Perhaps they should not have in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neighbor Posted July 8, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 18 Topic Count: 940 Topics Per Day: 0.35 Content Count: 13,416 Content Per Day: 5.02 Reputation: 8,958 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/04/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/03/1885 Share Posted July 8, 2019 3 hours ago, ayin jade said: What does that have to do with anything? Exactly! My question too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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