other one Posted July 15, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 593 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 55,875 Content Per Day: 7.55 Reputation: 27,624 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted July 15, 2019 if I had brought the lighter into my house I might have had it used on me... wives should not have to tolerate such things... actually you should be upset about it... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeauJangles Posted July 15, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 44 Topic Count: 229 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 10,900 Content Per Day: 2.95 Reputation: 12,145 Days Won: 68 Joined: 02/13/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/14/1954 Share Posted July 15, 2019 2 minutes ago, other one said: if I had brought the lighter into my house I might have had it used on me... wives should not have to tolerate such things... actually you should be upset about it... I wholeheartedly agree. On 7/11/2019 at 11:27 AM, BeauJangles said: That's right. Lower the boom, I say! LOL re-post - case in point... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted July 16, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 239 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,542 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 865 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 16, 2019 Sorry i do think it's wrong for the simple fact it wasnt your property. Who's ever it was he spent his money on it.. I think you should have confronted your husband about the image and his friends instead of defacing an item that didn't belong to you. Just my 2 cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted July 16, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 239 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,542 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 865 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 16, 2019 11 hours ago, Billiards Ball said: I'm surprised that everyone here felt it was appropriate to "witness" to the friend by destroying his property, unasked, and to create a marriage rift by acting childish toward a spouse's friend. I understand the OP but like you i dont agree with defacing an object that doesnt belong to you. But the situation is resolved which is good but i think she should replace it though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prycejosh1987 Posted July 14, 2020 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,176 Content Per Day: 0.86 Reputation: 126 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/07/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/29/1987 Share Posted July 14, 2020 On 7/11/2019 at 1:26 PM, Thewhitedove said: My husband is a non believer and occasionally smokes when he drinks alcohol. He goes to a bar some nights with his friend, who I actually find quite creepy. A few weeks ago, the friemd had lent my husband a cigarette lighter with the photo of a naked woman printed on it. Last night my husband was out and I came across the lighter. I dont know what took over me, but I peeled off the image of the naked woman (well, she looked about age 20 max) and put it in the bin. This morning my husband saw what i had done and said that he had to give the lighter back to the friend and that I shouldn't have done that as it wasn't mine to destroy. I just didnt want it in my house and I felt repulsed at the thought of who had manipulated or exploited the girl in the pic To pose for that photo. Was I wrong? Should I say sorry to the friend? At the time I wasnt really sure if my husband was supposed to give it back though at the time, I didnt care. Help! Thanks Everyone has their own views, things like this should always be discussed before taking action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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