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On 7/13/2019 at 8:45 PM, Figure of eighty said:

So my whole family moved in with my brother. So its 5 in a 1 bedroom. Before i was expecting I of course helped financially...but now that Im further along and in school i cant. So my mom basically goes half and half with my brother like i used to. ( just a little back ground) 

 

Now the issue is.. My aunt and cousin and their kids live next door and almosy daily like clock work...when i get home from school or work.. They're at our place sittinf on the couch eating food and greeting me. 

Its one thing to come over every now and then but this is almost daily. And they stay late till 11p sometimes 1am. When i was working id work late and come home at midnight and they still be over. Sometimes they can be a bit rude ordering my brother to make him food or get them stuff. 

I feel i have no say bc im not doing anything fincancially anymore....but my mom has talked to my brother nothing got done. 

 

Its just very invasive and disrespectful imo. 

 

It just seems wrong bc we'd never do that to them..

 

Should i just keep quiet sbout this?

Yes you should.  And you should get a higher paying job, and get your own place, where you dictate the rules :)

 

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On 7/14/2020 at 3:16 PM, missmuffet said:

You started it? You can close it. 

I can? Didn't know I could

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