Figure of eighty Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 24, 2019 4 minutes ago, ayin jade said: Yes it will be hard. But if you are committed to it, despite times that are not so fun, you will likely find a great joy in raising your child that you will not regret. I will. I'll be super committed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Frances Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 38 Topic Count: 365 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 8,700 Content Per Day: 3.92 Reputation: 10,045 Days Won: 64 Joined: 03/27/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 I hope you decide to keep your baby as it seems you are right now. That is my opinion. Love is what matters most. It is good to have support too from people at your church. God's arm is not too short to help you. Keep following the Lord and he will bless you not meaning their may not be tight times but God will provide for your needs. The father may have rights too so lot's to consider. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 771 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,934 Content Per Day: 3.07 Reputation: 1,979 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 May i know how old r u, what is ur hobby, education, skill. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 24, 2019 1 minute ago, R. Hartono said: May i know how old r u, what is ur hobby, education, skill. late 20's. I'm in a dental program halfway done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 771 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,934 Content Per Day: 3.07 Reputation: 1,979 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 1 minute ago, Figure of eighty said: late 20's. I'm in a dental program halfway done. A dentist ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kristin Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Senior Member Followers: 6 Topic Count: 27 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 875 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 757 Days Won: 1 Joined: 06/04/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 6 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: Would he be mad if i decided to give my son away? I know deep down i wouldn't bc i love him so much ...but i just hate i dont have any money. Even though im pursuing higher education I don't have anyone to watch him that wont charge a grip. I just dont want my child to suffer through poverty. I want him to know what financial stability looks like..i dont want him to suffer at all. Then i think ...he'd have 2 parents instead of one. It just crosses my mind at times because I feel I cant do this. I know what you mean. But hear me sister: it is a blessing and a leap of faith to have children. Trust God. He will provide. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeauJangles Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 44 Topic Count: 229 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 10,900 Content Per Day: 2.93 Reputation: 12,145 Days Won: 68 Joined: 02/13/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/14/1954 Share Posted July 24, 2019 3 hours ago, R. Hartono said: May i know how old r u, what is ur hobby, education, skill. 3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: late 20's. I'm in a dental program halfway done. 3 hours ago, R. Hartono said: A dentist ? Dental Technician. Sonography or Ultrasound, has also been tossed out for consideration. However, the latest is perhaps an employ in the home. Plenty of opportunities there, but the pay is usually somewhat less. Benefits if offered, are even lesser. Just saying. The plus sides are pretty apparent, and might be the best yet opportunity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayin jade Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 44 Topic Count: 6,178 Topics Per Day: 0.88 Content Count: 43,795 Content Per Day: 6.21 Reputation: 11,243 Days Won: 58 Joined: 01/03/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 Dont quit the dental program. Having a career will benefit you and your child in the long run. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 24, 2019 4 hours ago, ayin jade said: Dont quit the dental program. Having a career will benefit you and your child in the long run. Im defintely not. Im halfway through and im doing well. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spock Posted July 24, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 29 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,239 Content Per Day: 0.86 Reputation: 1,686 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/26/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2019 11 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: I know in my heart I'd never have another chance to have a child again. This baby was , well he came suddenly. Ive had horrid luck with men and honestly, children weren't even in my plan-- so I know if I gave him away I'd never have another chance. Guys don't see me as anything other than a good friend..or a good time.. I'm starting to accept that I'm probably most definitely called to singleness bc despite trying to find a nice decent guy it just doesn't work out. I'm getting older and I don't believe I'll be married. Besides that, even though this pregnancy wasn't a hassle I'm not doing this again, when I can afford to I may have my tubes tied or something because one is enough for me. However, I love my child-- I feel like he'll be the only thing I have that's worth something if that makes sense. Wow.....pretty “honest” stuff here 80, BUT...... if I may add, just because your past relationships haven’t e a toy worked out, it doesn’t mean this dooms your future ones. ESPECIALLY with God involved in your life. May I suggest that you Read the book of Ruth for starters. Cheers, spock Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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