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So, it's been two years... And she never tried to contact you or wondered why you had not spoken to her? Sounds to me more like she did it herself, or if her brother did do it, she had no objections. Either way, i'd say the relationship is over. Maybe in the future, just specify that you got blocked and haven't spoken, so you guess it's been over for a while.

I'd back up Gandalf's advice about not thinking about girls at your age. It may not seem that way what with puberty and many of the other kids around you seemingly being "active," but there's better things in life. Women are confusing and honestly overrated (we still love 'em though). I wish I had focused more in school, rather than focusing on girls so much; Never had any luck anyway, so it was a waste of time. You have to lay a foundation before you can build a house, you know? Enjoy your youth while you have it.

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9 hours ago, 4everyume said:

Am i still dating her if i dont talk to her or cant communicate with her

No you are not still dating her. Move on with your life.Ā 

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14 hours ago, 4everyume said:

Ok so i was dating a girl long distance and her brother blocked me and we didnt break up but i dont know her no more or anything and im afraid im cheating on her but i say i break up with herĀ and isnt that a sin

To date someone means thatĀ  you drive in your car and pick a girl up at her home.Ā  ThenĀ  you go somewhere, dinner or a movie.Ā  Dating means you talk and such face to face in pursuit of a romantic relationship and /or marriage.

There is no such thing as long distance dating.

To cheat on someone you are dating mean to engage in a relationship of some kind with someone else.Ā  Either you have sex with someone else or you "date" someone else secretly and behind their back, driving in your car to pick THAT person up from their home and going somewhere with them in pursuit of a romantic relationship and/or marriage and you allow the first person to believe a lie.Ā  A lie on purpose and with intent.Ā  That's cheating.

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14 hours ago, 4everyume said:

Ok so i was dating a girl long distance and her brother blocked me and we didnt break up but i dont know her no more or anything and im afraid im cheating on her but i say i break up with herĀ and isnt that a sin

Did you use google translate to post that?

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1 hour ago, Repose said:

I'd back up Gandalf's advice about not thinking about girls at your age.

A boyĀ notĀ think about girls at 13 years old? Really?Ā :rolleyes:

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8 minutes ago, BeauJangles said:

A boyĀ notĀ think about girls at 13 years old? Really?Ā :rolleyes:

I can remember being chased on the playground in first grade. That is the beginning.Ā :verkle:

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28 minutes ago, Jayne said:

To date someone means thatĀ  you drive in your car and pick a girl up at her home.Ā  ThenĀ  you go somewhere, dinner or a movie.Ā  Dating means you talk and such face to face in pursuit of a romantic relationship and /or marriage.

There is no such thing as long distance dating.

To cheat on someone you are dating mean to engage in a relationship of some kind with someone else.Ā  Either you have sex with someone else or you "date" someone else secretly and behind their back, driving in your car to pick THAT person up from their home and going somewhere with them in pursuit of a romantic relationship and/or marriage and you allow the first person to believe a lie.Ā  A lie on purpose and with intent.Ā  That's cheating.

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A person can date several people casually. It is not until the couple decide their relationship is serious andĀ they will only date each other that it is considered cheating if they date someone else..Ā 

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19 hours ago, 4everyume said:

Ok so i was dating a girl long distance and her brother blocked me and we didnt break up but i dont know her no more or anything and im afraid im cheating on her but i say i break up with herĀ and isnt that a sin

You're too young to go steady.

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