lambert Posted August 20, 2019 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/20/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted August 20, 2019 What should I do when I did something mean to a person and the whole world hates me for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steward George Posted August 20, 2019 Group: Steward Followers: 110 Topic Count: 10,460 Topics Per Day: 1.26 Content Count: 27,739 Content Per Day: 3.34 Reputation: 15,386 Days Won: 126 Joined: 06/30/2001 Status: Online Birthday: 09/21/1971 Steward Share Posted August 20, 2019 4 minutes ago, lambert said: What should I do when I did something mean to a person and the whole world hates me for it First, you should ask forgiveness to God. Then forgiveness to the person you offended. That's the first step! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lambert Posted August 20, 2019 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/20/2019 Status: Offline Author Share Posted August 20, 2019 But isnt the world still going to hate me for it. The situation isn't going to disappear in their eyes. You know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovethelord Posted August 20, 2019 Group: Senior Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 667 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1,540 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/17/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted August 20, 2019 Hi Lambert, Did you apologize to this person? Also, you should probably recognize if you are feeling bad because of hurting that person's feelings or if you are feeling bad because people are upset with you. I think you will feel a lot better if you extend a apology to that person and ask for their forgiveness. I don't say this lightly because I know that sometimes it's a hard thing to do. You can pray to the Lord for strength and courage to do so. Romans 14:19, "So then, let us pursue what makes for peace and for building up one another." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Who me Posted August 21, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 17 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,272 Content Per Day: 1.73 Reputation: 1,677 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/27/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted August 21, 2019 On 8/20/2019 at 8:24 PM, lambert said: What should I do when I did something mean to a person and the whole world hates me for it Here in the UK the news of your mean deed has yet to hit the headlines. The world is still ignoring you and your mean deed. So go to that person and publicly apologise to them for the mean deed. Then don't be mean to them or anyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnthebaptist Posted August 21, 2019 Group: Non-Conformist Theology Followers: 6 Topic Count: 118 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4,361 Content Per Day: 2.35 Reputation: 2,109 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/25/2019 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/03/1953 Share Posted August 21, 2019 On 8/20/2019 at 12:24 PM, lambert said: What should I do when I did something mean to a person and the whole world hates me for it Apologize? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debp Posted August 23, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 52 Topic Count: 1,010 Topics Per Day: 0.15 Content Count: 12,205 Content Per Day: 1.79 Reputation: 16,281 Days Won: 92 Joined: 07/19/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted August 23, 2019 On 8/21/2019 at 2:46 PM, Who me said: Here in the UK the news of your mean deed has yet to hit the headlines. The world is still ignoring you and your mean deed. News of the mean deed hasn't reached California either! Seriously though, Lambert, once you ask God and the person you hurt for forgiveness, then you must not worry about what some others might think of you. They might see you now acting in a kinder way to that person and others, and realize you have changed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted September 13, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 763 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,897 Content Per Day: 3.09 Reputation: 1,976 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted September 13, 2019 (edited) On 8/21/2019 at 2:24 AM, lambert said: What should I do when I did something mean to a person and the whole world hates me for it When u do something unpleasant to somebody, whatever the reason is, the whole neighbourhood will curse you because your "wickedness" will be spread like contagious disease n people will see u like leprosy endemic. I know it very well, thats what tongue can do, spreading ur wickedness as if they r sinless,. You cannot change the world until they repent so just pray for their repentance n don't return their curses with curses as this world does Edited September 13, 2019 by R. Hartono Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lftc Posted September 29, 2019 Group: Senior Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 536 Content Per Day: 0.32 Reputation: 323 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/16/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted September 29, 2019 @lambert It looks like you have not logged in again. So I post this in hope that you hear it where ever you are. I know many in your situation take the faster way out. It can make sense, when the whole world hates you, the forgiveness of God only matters in heaven. @R. Hartono said it well. The sin of gossip and slander has hideous effect in this world. Lambert, I hope you somehow find the strength to carry on all alone and hated. I hope that Jesus covers you in the sleepless nights and gives you some hope. My heart breaks for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lftc Posted September 29, 2019 Group: Senior Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 536 Content Per Day: 0.32 Reputation: 323 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/16/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted September 29, 2019 @lambert it is late here but I wanted to add to what I posted last. Moses was hated after he killed the eqyptian. Hated by everyone, so that he had to run and hide. David was hated by many who should have been his friends. He was especially hated after stealing his friend's wife and killing his friend. Many in his kingdom tried to kill him many times. The apostle Paul was hated by most Christians for quite some time. He was hated by the Jewish Christians for a long time. He had been going around killing christians. What do all these have in common with you? God did not hold their sins against them. Yet their community did, even calling for their deaths. Each of them endured the worst journey in life, being hated by all. Each grew to be a person God could trust with his messages for all those that hated them. I do not know the mean things you did, and I don't care. I do choose to belive that God's kingdom is far greater than this world with its complete destruction of some people. It is a struggle to believe in God's mercy when his people are against you. But we can choose to believe him. Accept his Love that is wider and deeper than we can imagine. Believe that He loves you enough to have things planned for you, things that will be good for other people. Set out to be different than other people, set out to imitate God. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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