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On 11/2/2019 at 1:11 AM, missmuffet said:

If a woman is a true born again Christian she will not go for "the bad guy". There are very few of the Proverbs 31 women left in our world today. They are very uncommon. 

67% of women professing to be Christian engage in premarital sex actively and promote it.  so 67% of professing Christian women are not really Christian?

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The 'spirit of the age'.

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A walk to remember syndrome

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1 hour ago, mlssufan01 said:

67% of women professing to be Christian engage in premarital sex actively and promote it.  so 67% of professing Christian women are not really Christian?

That seems like a low number. I think the word "Christian" has lost its significance today. That are many who are pretend Christians in our world. 

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15 minutes ago, Isaiah53NIV said:
1 hour ago, mlssufan01 said:

67% of women professing to be Christian engage in premarital sex actively and promote it.  so 67% of professing Christian women are not really Christian?

I am not going to pretend to know who is saved and who isn't, only Father knows, but the part that I put in bold is obviously important. Maybe these individuals have not yet been saved. I also want to know where that percentage came from. Please cite your source.

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On 11/1/2019 at 11:36 PM, Willa said:

Most "goody goody" Christian girls are incredibly naive.  Others hope to change the bad guy.  That is also being naive.  Only God can change them.  Most pity the bad guys, as God pities us all who are lost and need salvation.  They don't understand yet that pitying love comes from God and they should let guys minister to guys;  in other words, they don't understand how dangerous guys can be and how gullible they themselves are.  Nor do they understand how strong a guys sex drive is because women think in terms of marriage, a home and family; even when girls like that are flirtatious they don't necessarily think in terms of sex.  They want a guy's friendship.  

Most don't even understand yet that just because a guy comes from a Christian family, it doesn't mean they are born again.  

I have listened to many girls who were raped by someone they met at church.  Some feel very fallen, that no one would want them afterwards, or even that God would never forgive them.  They can't forgive themselves.  This is not only true of church girls who are baby Christians.  I have talked to women that were not Christians and not raised in Christian homes that felt the same way as far as feeling fallen and had a very low opinion of themselves after sex outside of marriage.  They often feel totally worthless so they sleep around afterwards.  That is their words. 

I have never heard anyone speak with so much understanding and wisdom. This was very healing to read. What a beautiful sister in Christ you are.❤️ 

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3 hours ago, mlssufan01 said:


I am in no way criticizing believers for their "past" failures prior to conversion.  I am specifically referring to those who profess to know Christ and claim they are devout followers, yet "willfully engage in continuous pursuit of the bad boy." 

Perhaps I misunderstood your post then, brother. I just hope you do realize that devout Christian women do exist - some have come to know Christ after living in the world and others have been in the church for years but might have failed before deciding to live above the standard of this world. I agree that all who are in Christ are commanded to live above the lusts of the flesh and if we are indeed IN Christ then what we're seeking after should change. I just think we need to remember that one's past doesn't discredit them from being labeled "devout" now. His blood washes and cleanses - lets keep that in the forefront of our minds. 

I'm also one who is a "30 something" and single - I've realized that whomever I marry (if I ever do) will come with baggage. I think it's just something we have to accept, especially as one who is older and single. 

I'd still like to see your sources for those statistics - I think they're off. 

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On 11/3/2019 at 2:42 PM, TheAimes said:

Perhaps I misunderstood your post then, brother. I just hope you do realize that devout Christian women do exist - some have come to know Christ after living in the world and others have been in the church for years but might have failed before deciding to live above the standard of this world. I agree that all who are in Christ are commanded to live above the lusts of the flesh and if we are indeed IN Christ then what we're seeking after should change. I just think we need to remember that one's past doesn't discredit them from being labeled "devout" now. His blood washes and cleanses - lets keep that in the forefront of our minds. 

I'm also one who is a "30 something" and single - I've realized that whomever I marry (if I ever do) will come with baggage. I think it's just something we have to accept, especially as one who is older and single. 

I'd still like to see your sources for those statistics - I think they're off. 

https://www.christianpost.com/news/the-bachelorette-widespread-premarital-sex-among-christians.html

Not by much....61% admit to regularly doing it while 80% said they would do it

https://www.christianpost.com/news/the-bachelorette-widespread-premarital-sex-among-christians.html
And this from a CHRISTIAN source!

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18 minutes ago, mlssufan01 said:

Well those numbers are sad. No justification or excuse can be made for it. I will say though, many claim Christ but don't really no Him. If they knew Him, they wouldn't be engaging in habitual sin. 

 

 

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55 minutes ago, mlssufan01 said:

 

99.9% probably “ want to”. That makes them no better than the ones that give in to their lust.They are just wiser......they don't have to worry about getting pregnant.....they don’t have to worry about sexual diseases.....they don’t have to worry about a blemished reputation.....they don’t have to worry about displeasing God and losing fellowship- it’s hard to get ready answers for prayers when you live a life of disobedience .When it comes to sex, people are pretty much going to do what they want to do.Its like any other sin.....resist the temptation and you will be blessed, give in and be chastised .Like all of Satan’s lies and deceptions.....sin can be a lot of fun—- “ for a season”. In the end it’s always some sort of trap. It’s like my old 4th grade teacher used to say...... “ you can’t do wrong and get by.”

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