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Dealing with infidelity. And my family wants me to leave. 

So I’m unsure of how to respond to the responses made regarding my situation.  And this is more embarrassing than my love life.  

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I can understand wishing to keep details few, but any advice offered here would need more specifics.

EDIT if you would rather not post it publicly, I can understand - You can always private message someone. I don't know if I'd be able to help, but I don't think you would have to worry about embarrassment. I've heard and witnessed things that I'll take to my grave, not to mention my own regrets.

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14 hours ago, Mina1212 said:

Dealing with infidelity. And my family wants me to leave. 

Well, that is a really complicated situation....    I think what matters is not necessarily what your family wants....   and for that matter who your family is.....   do you mean your children or your parents.    When I speak of my family it means myself, my wife and my kids...    

If you are like my situation should I ever go really crazy and be unfaithful to my wife her six brothers would most likely make her a widow, so you might have to figure that into your decision also.   It matters how you feel about the lowlife husband who would cheat on you and just how you feel about it.....    

So you see, we really can't offer you any kind of real advice because that decision depends solely on your feelings and what you would tolerate in a relationship....   I know people who really just don't care....    can't put myself into that situation for I really do care.

So I would have to ask you what do you think about it?

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18 hours ago, Mina1212 said:

Dealing with infidelity. And my family wants me to leave. 

I love your avatar.  <3

So infidelity is super difficult, and you have given virtually no real information.

So I have to answer for myself.   I would not stay with someone who was openly engaging in infidelity.  Staying in such a relationship can damage your very soul.   Staying together feels less painful in the short term, because you just keep doing what you have been doing.   But someone who continues to be unfaithful, it will slowly harm you over and over, day after day, until you grow cold and numb on the inside.

You'll find yourself with a plastered on smile, and a fake happiness, trying to deceive the people around you that your marriage is fine, when really it is dead.

And then at some point, you'll snap and leave the marriage anyway.

Like I said before... I wouldn't put up with it at all.  My wife runs off with another guy, the day I find out, is the day I put all her clothes and belongings on the sidewalk, and change the locks on the door.

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On 1/3/2020 at 2:50 AM, Mina1212 said:

And my family wants me to leave. 

Seems like wise advice.

Perhaps the risk of STD's should be enough reason to leave. Sorry that you face this situation. Praying  for you, your mate, and family.

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On 1/3/2020 at 1:50 AM, Mina1212 said:

Dealing with infidelity. And my family wants me to leave. 

So I’m unsure of how to respond to the responses made regarding my situation.  And this is more embarrassing than my love life.  

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On 1/3/2020 at 7:50 AM, Mina1212 said:

Dealing with infidelity. And my family wants me to leave. 

Ask for forgiveness from whoever you need forgiveness from. Make it up to them too.

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