JesusFreak1john17 Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 41 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/31/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/22/1993 Share Posted December 31, 2007 So, I'm 14 years old and I've liked this girl for around a year now..She was a strong Christian and I wasn't but after about 6 months or so I found Christ and began a new man and she liked that and ended up liking me. We both decided since we're only in Junior High we should take it slow and not date until high school...and we said kissing would be in high school as well. Well, this past week I went to a wedding and my deeply religious uncle talked to me about a very happily married couple there who's 1st kiss was at the altar at wedding day. I was like woah. That night I texting the girl I like and we talked about possibly making that commitment and she said would you want to wait that long, if we get married? and I said yeah, I think it may help us both so we get to know each other more by having a very pure relationship. And we both agreed. What do you guys think? Was it a great idea, or no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agape_CTL Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 74 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/04/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/12/1978 Share Posted December 31, 2007 So, I'm 14 years old and I've liked this girl for around a year now..She was a strong Christian and I wasn't but after about 6 months or so I found Christ and began a new man and she liked that and ended up liking me. We both decided since we're only in Junior High we should take it slow and not date until high school...and we said kissing would be in high school as well. Well, this past week I went to a wedding and my deeply religious uncle talked to me about a very happily married couple there who's 1st kiss was at the altar at wedding day. I was like woah. That night I texting the girl I like and we talked about possibly making that commitment and she said would you want to wait that long, if we get married? and I said yeah, I think it may help us both so we get to know each other more by having a very pure relationship. And we both agreed. What do you guys think? Was it a great idea, or no? Staying pure is never a bad idea. It is not easy, but it can be done. If both of you are centered on Christ and then on each other. Spend the time between now and marriage getting to know each other better. Plan ativities together. If it gets tough to stay pure, do the activities with other friends that support what you are doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redwing Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 400 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 1,903 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 15 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/20/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/19/1942 Share Posted December 31, 2007 So, I'm 14 years old and I've liked this girl for around a year now..She was a strong Christian and I wasn't but after about 6 months or so I found Christ and began a new man and she liked that and ended up liking me. We both decided since we're only in Junior High we should take it slow and not date until high school...and we said kissing would be in high school as well. Well, this past week I went to a wedding and my deeply religious uncle talked to me about a very happily married couple there who's 1st kiss was at the altar at wedding day. I was like woah. That night I texting the girl I like and we talked about possibly making that commitment and she said would you want to wait that long, if we get married? and I said yeah, I think it may help us both so we get to know each other more by having a very pure relationship. And we both agreed. What do you guys think? Was it a great idea, or no? follow your heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.76 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.96 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted December 31, 2007 I know of a few couples who have chosen not to kiss until they are married. One young man who made this choice wrote a book about having a godly relationship. It's called I Kissed Dating Goodby <<--LINK. (He is now a pastor, BTW.) You might want to check it out. The Lord bless your commitment! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hunterpoet Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 0 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2,704 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 25 Days Won: 1 Joined: 05/29/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/08/1950 Share Posted December 31, 2007 I'm an old man, but I think your idea is just so cool......stay strong...good luck...Grace and Peace to you little brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedeemedByHim Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 63 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,157 Content Per Day: 0.18 Reputation: 9 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/24/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/25/1982 Share Posted December 31, 2007 I really respect your decision and it is one that you will be blessed with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaritateDei Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 6 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 400 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/02/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted December 31, 2007 So, I'm 14 years old and I've liked this girl for around a year now..She was a strong Christian and I wasn't but after about 6 months or so I found Christ and began a new man and she liked that and ended up liking me. We both decided since we're only in Junior High we should take it slow and not date until high school...and we said kissing would be in high school as well. Well, this past week I went to a wedding and my deeply religious uncle talked to me about a very happily married couple there who's 1st kiss was at the altar at wedding day. I was like woah. That night I texting the girl I like and we talked about possibly making that commitment and she said would you want to wait that long, if we get married? and I said yeah, I think it may help us both so we get to know each other more by having a very pure relationship. And we both agreed. What do you guys think? Was it a great idea, or no? It is a great idea. I did not practice the idea, but just think about the words, "You may NOW kiss the bride." One other thing to remember is that you are a young man. Right now it is easy to see yourself with this fine young lady forever, but as Agape said, spend some time getting to know her. If all you think about is "when we're married...when we're married...when we're married..." then those thoughts could take a bit of a toll on the relationship; indeed, they could BECOME the relationship. Build a good God-centered relationship and focus on that. Whether it is God's will for you to marry her or not will come to you in time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trusting Jesus Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2,050 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 22 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/12/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 09/09/1952 Share Posted December 31, 2007 You sound as if your acceptance of Jesus has truly affected your life and your thoughts. Wow. You are making some very wise decisions and I truly hope that you will stand by your convictions. If you look around you you see example after example of the heartache and destroyed lives because God is not first. If this young lady is the one God has chosen for you, your life together will be fuller and richer if you have built your relationship on God (as the foundation) and friendship. <>< ><> Nathele Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I_found Posted December 31, 2007 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 38 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 2 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/18/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted December 31, 2007 I read the book Nebula refers to, Kissing Dating Goodbye. I liked it... and I think your idea shows honour & respect to God, yourself, and your future mate ...and that is irreplaceable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bigblue Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 I'm 20, and my lips has never touched a girls. And I'm sooo happy that I can say that! I have met someone I like alot, and now I can tell her, I have never touched nor kissed a girl! You won't regret keeping yourself! Stay pure! Amen My Brother. God Bless You! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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