hechozme824

It sounds like you've been cheated on before and you're dragging your hurt over into my discussion. While I might have a problem with lust you have a problem with holding unforgiveness in your heart. The truth of the matter is ALL HAVE SINNED AND COME SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD and before we can get the mote out of our brother's eye we need to get the beam out of our own. And I have not unbuttoned my blouse in front of this man thank you very much but if you have any age on you a little more than 5 or 6 years old (and I believe you do) then you know that the eye is the seat of the emotions and you don't even have to open your mouth but once two people make eye contact, it signals off what one or both people are thinking. So I've come to this discussion board for help not condemnation. And better yet I forgive you for attacking me with false accusations and hopefully you'll find the power to forgive whoever hurt you be it in the past, present, or future.

Stait from the Mouth of our Lord..... You are an adulterer. I would suggest that you find some way to not be aground her, or start poking out your eyes...... and I'm not trying to be funny. You are on a train headed strait for disaster and you'll not only destroy your families, but hurt the Church while you're at it. Fez is right....... Run. I AM A WOMAN NOT A MAN!!! Sorry, I just dislike the fact that everybody who has sent their posts seem to think I'm a man I guess because men are usually the ones who fall into these kinds of traps.

When you are in ministry that is simply Impossible! You get calls all the time to go pray for this individual, counsel with a person, and I'm also a musician (I'M A FEMALE NOT A MALE) just clearing that up for Everybody. And first of all there are no such things as "private settings". Whatever you do in the ministry, it is seen by ALL and people will come up with their own assumptions of what they think about this person and that person but me and him both know that we've been working together for nearly a year and have just remained friends and nothing more.

First of all, I'M A WOMAN, not a man and I don't have a wife. I am a wife and both of our spouses know we work together in the church. That's why I say God is getting the glory out of it because we've been working together for almost a year and we haven't fell yet because we both are fighting against adultery since we know that is wrong.

Ugh! I don't have a wife (I AM A WIFE) Sorry if I led you to believe I was a man. But no I am a female associate minister with another male minister.

Ugh! I don't have a wife (I AM A WIFE) Sorry if I led you to believe I was a man. But no I am an associate minister with another male minister.

Me and one of the other associate ministers in my church have become very close and we talk a lot on the phone but it's strictly about church, singing, and just casual talk about our jobs and kids and stuff. But we both are attracted to each other. Neither one of use have mentioned anything out of the way to the other one but we just know because the chemistry be so thick in the room when we're together working on a project or something. Sometimes we have to be alone and we don't say anything but oure eye contact be so strong. Is God pleased with us feeling this way even though we have not acted on these feelings but continue to praise our spouses to each other and remind ourselves of how good our own marriages are? I see this as a way of denying the flesh but what do you do about those feelings even when you've already made your decision not to sin?